Overcome Emotional Barriers: Lessons from Fck Your Feelings

Mastering Your Mind: Key Lessons from Fck Your Feelings by Ryan Munsey

In a world driven by instant gratification, emotions often steer us toward comfort and away from challenge. Ryan Munsey’s Fck Your Feelings: Master Your Mind, End Self-Doubt, and Become a More Significant Human takes a hard stance against letting emotions rule our decisions. Instead, he challenges readers to embrace discomfort, reject excuses, and cultivate a mindset of discipline and resilience.

Munsey’s central thesis is that feelings are unreliable, often acting as roadblocks to success. While emotions have their place, relying on them to guide your actions can lead to inconsistency and failure. Munsey argues that true progress comes not from “feeling like it,” but from mastering the mind and taking action despite how we feel.

Here are some key takeaways from the book, along with expanded insights on how to implement these principles in your life.

1. The Problem with Emotional Decision-Making

One of the main points Munsey drives home is that feelings can sabotage your decision-making. Emotions, he argues, are often fleeting and unreliable. Whether it’s the fear of failure, the discomfort of change, or the temptation of instant gratification, emotions can cloud judgment and derail long-term goals.

Munsey insists that while emotions are inevitable, they should not be the driving force behind important decisions. Instead of waiting for motivation or “feeling ready,” successful individuals take action despite their emotional state. The key is recognizing when your emotions are leading you astray and learning to detach from them to make more objective, rational choices.

Takeaway: Stop waiting for the perfect emotional state to act. You don’t need to feel confident, motivated, or inspired to make progress. The ability to act in the face of doubt and discomfort is what separates successful people from those who stagnate.

2. Mental Toughness is a Skill, Not a Trait

A large part of Munsey’s philosophy is centered on the idea that mental toughness isn’t something you’re born with—it’s a skill that can be developed. By deliberately pushing yourself beyond your comfort zone and practicing self-discipline, you can train your mind to endure discomfort and keep going, even when your feelings are telling you to stop.

Building mental resilience requires consistent effort and a willingness to challenge yourself. Whether it’s a tough workout, a challenging project at work, or resisting the urge to procrastinate, every time you push through difficulty, you’re training your mind to become stronger.

Takeaway: Mental toughness is like a muscle—the more you use it, the stronger it gets. Challenge yourself regularly by doing things that make you uncomfortable, and over time, you’ll become more resilient in the face of adversity.

3. Stop Relying on Motivation

Munsey makes it clear that motivation is fickle. It comes and goes, often when you least expect it. Waiting for motivation to strike before taking action is a surefire way to remain stagnant. Instead, Munsey emphasizes the importance of systems and habits over motivation.

Successful people don’t rely on motivation; they create systems and routines that ensure they stay on track, regardless of how they feel. By focusing on building strong habits, you can make progress consistently, even on days when motivation is nowhere to be found.

Takeaway: Design your life around systems, not motivation. Create daily habits that move you toward your goals, and stick to them, whether you feel like it or not.

4. Discomfort is Your Friend

One of the most important concepts in Fck Your Feelings* is that discomfort is essential for growth. Munsey argues that growth only happens when we push beyond our comfort zones. This is where true transformation occurs—when you’re willing to endure discomfort in the short term for the sake of long-term success.

By embracing discomfort, you can train yourself to do hard things without hesitation. Whether it’s making a difficult decision, having a tough conversation, or pushing through physical pain in the gym, discomfort is the price you pay for progress.

Takeaway: Learn to embrace discomfort as a necessary part of growth. The more you practice enduring difficult situations, the easier it becomes to tackle challenges in the future.

5. The Power of Self-Discipline

At the core of Munsey’s philosophy is self-discipline—the ability to do what needs to be done, even when you don’t feel like it. While self-doubt and negative emotions are inevitable, discipline allows you to stay consistent in your actions. Munsey believes that self-discipline is the foundation of success in any area of life, whether it’s business, fitness, or personal growth.

Self-discipline is not about being harsh on yourself, but about setting clear standards for your behavior and sticking to them. It’s about being proactive, taking ownership of your actions, and committing to long-term goals, even when the process is uncomfortable.

Takeaway: Cultivating self-discipline is essential for achieving success. Focus on creating small, daily disciplines that align with your bigger goals, and commit to them, no matter how you feel.

6. Focus on What You Can Control

Munsey highlights the importance of focusing on what you can control rather than being overwhelmed by external factors. Many people let uncontrollable circumstances dictate their emotions and actions, leading to frustration and helplessness.

By shifting focus to what you can control—your mindset, your actions, and your responses—you can take back your power and create real change in your life. Munsey emphasizes the importance of personal responsibility and not allowing excuses to justify inaction.

Takeaway: Take ownership of your life by focusing on what you can control. Stop wasting energy on things beyond your influence, and instead direct your effort toward actions that move you closer to your goals.

Final Thoughts

Fck Your Feelings* is a hard-hitting, practical guide for anyone looking to break free from the limitations of emotional decision-making and develop mental toughness. Munsey’s advice may be tough to hear, but it’s exactly the kind of direct, no-nonsense wisdom that’s needed to achieve real, lasting change. If you’re ready to stop letting your feelings control your life and start making disciplined, deliberate choices, this book is for you.

While the tone may be blunt, the lessons are invaluable: stop relying on motivation, embrace discomfort, and take full responsibility for your actions. As Munsey makes clear, mastering your mind is the key to achieving greatness.

Book Review #66 – The Will To Win

The Will To Win: Leading, Competing, SucceedingThe Will To Win: Leading, Competing, Succeeding by Robert Herjavec
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

The Will to Win” is a compelling mix of autobiography and business advice from Robert Herjavec, my favorite Shark Tank cast member. The book offers a glimpse into his childhood in Croatia and his family’s journey to Canada, which laid the groundwork for his strong work ethic and eventual success in founding a security company and landing a role on Shark Tank. Along the way, he shares invaluable lessons on branding, handling public perception, and the deeper motivations behind making money. Some memorable quotes include “pleasure is an easier sell than pain,” “focus on value, not price,” “don’t ask the customer questions you can answer yourself,” and “meet the right person at the right level.” The list goes on, with each piece of advice grounded in experience and insight. This book is a powerful guide for anyone striving to achieve both professional success and personal fulfillment.

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Almighty Allah vs Karma, Jinx, and Nazzar (Evil Eye)

Throughout human history, people have tried to make sense of the forces that shape their lives. For us as Muslims, our understanding of destiny, protection, and success is anchored in faith in Allah (Subhanahu wa ta’ala) power and wisdom. Yet, in daily life, many turn to ideas like Karma, Jinx, or Nazzar (the Evil Eye) to explain misfortunes or successes. These concepts are not from Islam; they’re often rooted in misunderstandings or borrowed from other belief systems. My goal in this article is to explain why true peace and resilience come from relying on Allah Subhanahu wa ta’ala alone and not on these human created myths.

From the start, we’ve been given examples of Allah (swt) wisdom and authority. Shaytaan was one of the first beings to defy Allah (swt), refusing to honor Adam (AS). This act of pride led to Shaytaan’s downfall, showing us what happens to those who turn away from Allah (swt) commands. Over time, Allah (swt) justice has unfolded through various generations, as seen with the destruction of communities in the time of Prophet Noah (AS) and the people of Prophet Lut (AS). Back then, the punishment was immediate; people saw the consequences of disobedience right before their eyes.

Today, however, Allah (swt) allows us more time to choose our paths and reflect. But even with this patience, Allah (swt) attributes remain: He is still the All-Powerful, the Most Merciful, and the Best Planner. As the Quran says, He alone is responsible for the fate of all creation:

To Allah belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth, and whatever is within them. He has power over all things.
(Quran 5:120)

And Allah is the best of planners. (Quran 3:54)

He created the heavens and the earth in truth and formed you and perfected your forms; and to Him is the [final] destination.
(Quran 64:3)

In our fast-paced world, however, we often overlook these verses. Instead, we begin to rely on concepts like Karma, Jinx, or Nazzar (Evil Eye) to explain events. But why? These beliefs give a sense of immediate cause and effect, an illusion of control over what happens to us. Yet, believing in such ideas inadvertently diminishes our faith in Allah’s ultimate plan and protection.

Why Allah (swt) Power Surpasses Karma, Jinx, and Nazzar (Evil Eye)

Allah (swt) wisdom and justice encompass everything, including what we understand and what we don’t. When we believe in Allah (swt) alone, we don’t need explanations like Karma or Jinx because we know that everything is part of His divine plan. Allah (swt) doesn’t rely on luck or fate in the way humans might think; His wisdom is beyond any human comprehension.

Consider Pharaoh, as mentioned in the Quran. He was wealthy and powerful, ruling with an iron fist and enslaving his people. Some might even view him as a “successful” ruler by worldly standards, yet his arrogance led him to defy Allah (swt), even claiming divinity. Despite his immense power, he met his end in the Red Sea, where Allah (swt) preserved his body as a lasting reminder of what happens to those who rebel against His commands. Pharaoh’s fate is a profound lesson that no one, no matter how strong or influential, can challenge Allah (swt) authority.

As the Quran says:

This day We shall preserve your body, that you may become a sign to those who come after you! But verily, many among mankind are heedless of Our signs. (Quran 10:92)

If Pharaoh lived in our times, he might be considered one of the most cruel powerful figures in the world, a leader with seemingly unlimited control. Yet, even with all his influence, he was defeated by Allah (swt), his body left as a warning to humanity. This demonstrates an essential truth: no amount of wealth, power, or influence can stand against Allah (swt) will. Truly, no human, no matter the era or “universe” could ever match Allah (swt) might.

Why Do People Believe in Karma, Jinx, and Nazzar?

Karma, Jinx, and Nazzar (Evil Eye) are appealing because they seem to explain the things we don’t understand. Karma promises that “what goes around, comes around,” while Jinx and the Evil Eye imply that someone else’s jealousy or negativity can bring harm. But these concepts ultimately rely on a worldview that Allah (swt) wisdom and protection overrule. When we put our trust in Allah (swt), we recognize that nothing happens without His permission. No amount of envy, “bad luck,” or supposed curse can harm us if Allah (swt) does not will it.

In the Quran, Allah (swt) reassures us of His protection:

And if Allah should touch you with adversity, there is no remover of it except Him; and if He intends for you good, then there is no repeller of His bounty. (Quran 10:107)

This verse is a powerful reminder that Allah (swt) alone controls what happens to us. Believing in anything else is a form of shirk, or associating others with Allah (swt) power, which is a grave sin. When we start to place our faith in Karma, Jinx, or Nazzar (Evil Eye), we lose sight of Allah (swt) role as our protector and guide.

Building a Mindset of Tawakkul (Trust in Allah)

So, what does it mean to fully place our trust in Allah (swt)? It means that we recognize His wisdom in every situation, even when we don’t understand it. Practicing tawakkul, or reliance on Allah (swt), frees us from the anxiety and fear that come with beliefs in Karma or the Evil Eye. If something difficult happens, we know it is a test from Allah (swt). If we achieve success, we thank Allah (swt) for His blessings. This mindset is incredibly powerful because it removes the need to control every detail of our lives, giving us peace and contentment.

One practical way to practice tawakkul is through gratitude and humility. Each time we accomplish something, we should say, “Masha’Allah,” recognizing that Allah (swt) is the source of our success. Instead of thinking, “I earned this entirely by my own effort,” we can say, “Alhamdulillah, Allah (swt) blessed me with this opportunity.” Gratitude not only humbles us but also serves as a shield against envy or negativity from others.

Trust in Allah (swt): The Path to Inner Peace

Many of the anxieties we face today stem from a lack of trust in Allah (swt). When we put faith in concepts like Karma or Jinx, we open ourselves to needless worry. “Will my success bring bad luck?” “Is someone giving me the Evil Eye?” These questions only arise when we forget that Allah (swt) is our protector.

Here’s a practical approach to letting go of these fears:

  1. Constantly Remember Allah (swt): Keep Allah (swt) in your heart and mind throughout the day. Recite “Bismillah” when starting anything, and thank Allah often.
  2. Believe in Divine Wisdom: Remind yourself that Allah (swt) knows best, even when situations seem difficult. Trusting in His wisdom helps us accept His will, regardless of the circumstances.
  3. Practice Gratitude: Saying “Alhamdulillah” or “Masha’Allah” for blessings keeps us grounded and reminds us of Allah (swt) mercy.
  4. Pray for Protection: When you feel anxious about the Evil Eye or other fears, pray sincerely. The Quran tells us that Allah (swt) is our best protector: “And Allah is the best of protectors, and He is the Most Merciful of the merciful.” (Quran 12:64)
  5. Read the Quran and Seek Guidance: The Quran is filled with verses that bring comfort and wisdom, reminding us of Allah (swt) power. Regularly reading the Quran strengthens our faith and reinforces our reliance on Allah (swt).

Conclusion: Allah (swt) Alone is Sufficient

Ultimately, our lives and destinies are in Allah (swt) hands, not in the hands of concepts like Karma, Jinx, or Nazzar (Evil Eye). When we deepen our faith in Allah (swt) and turn to Him for guidance, we are no longer bound by superstitions or unfounded fears. Placing our trust in Allah (swt) above all else allows us to live with purpose, peace, and gratitude. The more we rely on Him, the more we can let go of beliefs that weaken our faith. Insha’Allah, may we all strive to remember that Allah (swt) is our protector, our guide, and the source of all blessings.


Note:

“Allah” is the Arabic word for God, referring to the One and only God.

“Subhanahu wa ta’ala” (SWT) is an Arabic phrase that translates to “The most glorified, the most high”. It is a Muslim honorific used to refer to God.

“Nazzar” is an Urdu term that translates to the “Evil Eye” or “Black Eye” in English. It refers to the belief that envious or negative energy from others can bring harm or misfortune. However, as explained, our faith in Allah’s protection and wisdom is far greater than any superstition, reinforcing that we are under His watchful care alone.

Action Figures Come to Life: The Art of Toy Photography

Jared Middleton, also known as SirDork730 on Instagram, dedicates hours to meticulously crafting action figure scenes with real-world environments and small firework effects to produce stunning action photographs.

Jared, 26 (as of the video published on March 22, 2019) from New York, began photographing action figures as a hobby in 2013. He admits that his early attempts “looked like complete garbage,” with basic poses of figures shooting at each other. However, through persistence and trial and error, he refined his skills and eventually produced stunning results.

Photo Gear He Uses:

“I use a Canon EOS Rebel with an 18-55mm lens. I don’t use any flash, but I use flashlights and natural lighting. I keep my shutter speed as fast as possible to capture the explosions. I bring a couple different tripods for filming as well as the photographing. That’s about it!”

20 Fascinating Things You Should Know About the Universe

The universe is an awe inspiring place, and as someone who loves diving deep into its mysteries, I find that learning about the cosmos brings me closer to Allah and the beauty of His creation. The vastness, complexity, and precision of the universe never cease to amaze me. Every time I explore its wonders, I feel a sense of peace and connection to the divine. Today, I’m excited to share with you just 20 incredible things about the universe that have captivated me, but trust me, I know far more than just 20! so stick around, because there’s so much more to discover, and I’ll be sharing even more of what I know on my “Divine Cosmos” category.

  1. The Universe is Expanding: Did you know the universe is still expanding? Since the Big Bang, it’s been growing, and this expansion is speeding up because of something mysterious called dark energy.
  2. It’s Billions of Years Old: The universe is approximately 13.8 billion years old, and scientists discovered this by studying the oldest light we can see the Cosmic Microwave Background Radiation.
  3. Cosmic Inflation: Right after the Big Bang, the universe went through a period of rapid growth called inflation, expanding faster than the speed of light in a fraction of a second.
  4. Dark Matter: A staggering 85% of the universe’s matter is made of something called dark matter. We can’t see it, but we know it’s there because of its gravitational effects on galaxies.
  5. Dark Energy: Even more mysterious is dark energy, making up nearly 70% of the universe. It’s the force pushing galaxies apart, causing the universe’s expansion to accelerate.
  6. Trillions of Galaxies: There are more than two trillion galaxies in the observable universe, each filled with billions or even trillions of stars. It’s humbling to think how vast creation is!
  7. Our Milky Way Galaxy: The Milky Way is just one of those galaxies, spanning about 100,000 light-years in diameter and containing 100-400 billion stars.
  8. The Speed of Light: Nothing travels faster than light, which zips through space at 299,792 kilometers per second. Yet, it still takes light from the Sun 8 minutes to reach Earth.
  9. The Oldest Light: The Cosmic Microwave Background Radiation is the faint glow from the Big Bang, offering us a glimpse into the universe’s early days.
  10. Black Holes: Black holes fascinate me! These objects are so dense that not even light can escape them. There are supermassive black holes at the center of most galaxies, including our own.
  11. Gravitational Waves: I’m amazed by the discovery of gravitational waves in 2015. These are ripples in spacetime caused by the merging of black holes and other massive cosmic events.
  12. Neutron Stars: Some stars collapse into incredibly dense neutron stars, so packed that just a teaspoon of this material would weigh billions of tons on Earth.
  13. Exoplanets: Thousands of planets have been discovered outside our solar system, and some lie in their stars’ “habitable zones,” where liquid water and potentially life might exist.
  14. The Multiverse Theory: Ever thought there could be other universes? The multiverse theory suggests there might be many universes, each with its own rules of physics.
  15. The Fate of the Universe: There are different ideas about how the universe will end. It could keep expanding (Big Freeze), collapse back on itself (Big Crunch), or tear apart (Big Rip).
  16. Observable Universe: The observable universe stretches about 93 billion light-years across, but it’s likely much bigger than what we can currently see.
  17. Where We Live: Our solar system is located in the Orion Arm of the Milky Way, about 27,000 light years from the galactic center.
  18. Stellar Nurseries: Stars are born in places called nebulae, vast clouds of gas and dust. The Orion Nebula is one of the most famous star-forming regions.
  19. Galaxies Collide: Believe it or not, galaxies collide! The Milky Way is on a collision course with the Andromeda Galaxy, but don’t worry—it won’t happen for another 4.5 billion years.
  20. Time Dilation: One of the most mind-blowing aspects of the universe is time dilation, where time slows down near massive objects like black holes, as predicted by Einstein’s theory of relativity.

These are just a few of the things I’ve come to know about the universe (not even a 1%) and there’s so much more I can’t wait to share with you. I’ve been passionate about astronomy for years because it truly makes me appreciate the grandeur and complexity of Allah’s creation. The universe isn’t just a collection of stars, planets, and galaxies – it’s a reflection of divine order and beauty, something that constantly reminds me of my place in the cosmos and Allah’s power.

If you’re as fascinated by the universe as I am, stay tuned! I’ll be posting more about space, astronomy, and how it all connects us to the deeper questions of existence. Keep exploring, and don’t forget to check back on my blog for more insights about this incredible universe!

Bonus Video:

This is one of the YouTube videos I watch to stay in touch with Allah Subhana’Watallah.

“O humanity! Remember Allah’s favors upon you. Is there any creator other than Allah who provides for you from the heavens and the earth? There is no god ˹worthy of worship˺ except Him. How can you then be deluded ˹from the truth˺?” – Quran 35:3

Surah Ikhlas

قُلْ هُوَ اللَّهُ أَحَدٌ ( 1)

Say,” He is Allah, the One

اللَّهُ الصَّمَدُ (2)

Allah is the All-embracing

لَمْ يَلِدْ وَ لَمْ يُولَدْ (3)

He neither begat nor was begotten

وَ لَمْ يَكُن لَّهُ كُفُوًا أَحَدُ (4)

nor has He any equal

فَاطِرُ السَّمَاوَاتِ وَ الْأَرْضِ جَعَلَ لَكمُ مِّنْ أَنفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا وَ مِنَ الْأَنْعَامِ أَزْوَاجًا يَذْرَؤُكُمْ فِيهِ لَيْسَ كَمِثْلِهِ شىَ‏ءٌ وَ هُوَ السَّمِيعُ الْبَصِيرُ (شوری:11)

The originator of the heavens and the earth, He made for you mates from your own selves, and mates of the cattle, by which means He multiplies you. Nothing is like Him, and He is the All-hearing, the All-seeing

In brief, let me say some attributions of Allah (The One & Only God):

God is one and unique, peerless, eternal, without beginning or end, the first and the last. He is all-knowing, all-wise, all-mighty, all-hearing, and all-seeing. He has no body or physical form, and cannot be seen by the eyes of the body in this world or the Hereafter. He cannot descend to earth in the form of man. He is not at a particular place, but there is no place where God is not present. He is nearer to us than our jugular vein and knows what we do, even what passes through our hearts. He is Just but also the most Merciful and Compassionate.

Book Review #65 – The Alchemist

The AlchemistThe Alchemist by Paulo Coelho
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I was reading this book alongside others and, noticing it was short, thought I’d take my time with it. I ended up falling deeply in love with it. It’s one of those stories that operates on multiple levels- at its surface, you have the classic hero’s journey: the protagonist embarks on an adventure, learns from a wise mentor, faces challenges, and ultimately discovers that the true treasure lies within himself. If that’s all you take from it, that’s perfectly fine, but there’s more happening beneath the surface.

The challenge with this book is figuring out exactly what that “more” is. It continuously hints at deeper lessons, touching on themes of ethics, metaphysics, history, anthropology, post-colonial critique, and even folk tales. There are biblical allusions alongside Islamic teachings about the nature of God, while institutions and mysticism are both evoked and questioned. As you read, there’s always the feeling that something profound is lingering just beneath the surface, but the moment you try to grasp it or put it into words, it seems to slip away.

That, I think, is the point – the message becomes clearer when you stop trying to pin it down. Hold it lightly, and it reveals itself; try to define it too rigidly, and it eludes you. The book works its magic subtly, and by the end, you feel both satisfied with the hero’s journey and yet yearning for something more – perhaps to embark on your own journey. That’s why I love it so much. It doesn’t give up its secrets easily – or maybe it gives them up too easily – leaving you to wonder where your own heart and treasure lie, and what your personal legend might be. In the end, I think the book says more about the reader than the text itself. Once you truly know your own heart and path, perhaps this will remain just a beautiful, passing fairy tale.

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Where I Find Free Books to Read Online and Offline

If you’re like me and love to read, finding quality books for free can feel like hitting the jackpot. Thanks to both online resources and traditional methods, it’s easier than ever to access great literature without spending a dime. Whether you’re into timeless classics, contemporary fiction, or just enjoy the feel of a physical book, I’ve put together a guide to where I find free books both online and offline. These are my personal recommendations, based on my own experience.

Where I Find Free Books Online

With the abundance of digital resources available, getting free eBooks is simple and convenient. Below are my favorite sites where you can download or read books online without spending a penny.

1. Project Gutenberg

One of my go-to sources for free eBooks is Project Gutenberg. It’s a massive collection of over 60,000 books, mostly older works that have entered the public domain. If you love classics, this is where you’ll find plenty of them for free.

Link: Project Gutenberg

2. Open Library

Open Library is another favorite of mine. It’s part of the Internet Archive, and its mission is to have “a web page for every book ever published.” I love that they offer millions of books in various formats, from public domain works to more modern books that you can borrow for free.

Link: Open Library

3. Google Books

While not everything on Google Books is free, I’ve found plenty of public domain books that are fully accessible. It’s a great place to browse through older titles, and you can read them right in your browser without having to download any special software.

Link: Google Books

4. Smashwords

For those who enjoy discovering indie authors and self-published works, Smashwords is a gem. I often browse through their thousands of free eBooks, which cover a wide range of genres. If you’re into romance, sci-fi, or even poetry, you’ll definitely find something to suit your taste here.

Link: Smashwords

5. ManyBooks

ManyBooks is another site I frequent when I’m looking for free eBooks. It has a clean interface and offers thousands of books in different genres. Many of their titles are sourced from Project Gutenberg, but they make it easier to browse and download.

Link: ManyBooks

6. BookBub

I’m a huge fan of BookBub, especially because they notify me about free and discounted eBooks across popular platforms like Amazon Kindle, Apple Books, and more. It’s perfect if you want to keep up with the latest deals and freebies without constantly searching.

Link: BookBub Free Books

7. Wattpad

If you’re into discovering up-and-coming authors like I am, Wattpad is worth exploring. While most of the content is original, there are plenty of free stories in every genre imaginable, from romance to thriller. It’s a fun platform to find fresh talent.

Link: Wattpad

8. Standard Ebooks

For those who, like me, appreciate well-formatted eBooks, Standard Ebooks is a fantastic resource. They take public domain books and turn them into beautifully crafted digital editions that are a pleasure to read on any device.

Link: Standard Ebooks

9. Amazon Free Kindle Books

Amazon’s collection of free Kindle books is another reliable resource I use. While you’ll need a Kindle device or the Kindle app, there’s a huge selection of free public domain works, as well as some promotional freebies.

Link: Amazon Free Kindle Books


My Tips for Enjoying Free Books Online:

  • Use your library: Many public libraries offer free digital borrowing services through apps like Libby or OverDrive. I’ve borrowed plenty of eBooks from my local library this way.
  • Check book formats: Make sure the eBook format works with your device, whether it’s PDF, ePub, or Kindle.
  • Stay legal: Stick to public domain books or those released under open licenses to avoid pirated content.

These online resources have given me access to a wealth of books I can enjoy anytime. Now, let’s move on to how I find free physical books.

Where I Find Free Books Offline

While digital platforms make it easy to access books online, sometimes there’s nothing quite like holding a physical book in your hands. If you’re like me and still enjoy the traditional way of reading, there are several ways to find free books offline as well. Here are some of the best places I’ve discovered to score physical books for free.

1. Public Libraries

Your local public library is one of the best places to find free books. Many libraries have extensive collections of both fiction and non-fiction, and they’re constantly adding new titles. The great thing is, you can borrow books for a few weeks at a time, and in some cases, libraries hold regular book sales or giveaways.

Tip: Many libraries also have partnerships with other libraries, so if your branch doesn’t have a book, they might be able to get it for you through interlibrary loans.

2. Little Free Libraries

Little Free Libraries are small, community-run book exchanges that have popped up all over the world. These are usually small wooden boxes set up in neighborhoods where anyone can take a book or leave a book. I love stumbling upon one while out and about because you never know what gems you might find. You can search for Little Free Library locations near you on their official website.

Link: Little Free Library Locations

3. Book Swaps

Book swaps are another excellent way to find free books. Many communities, workplaces, or even coffee shops host informal book exchange programs. You can bring in books you no longer need and swap them for something new. Some events are one-off, while others are recurring, giving you plenty of opportunities to refresh your reading pile.

Tip: Keep an eye out for book swap events at local community centers or schools, as these often pop up during the year.

4. Freecycle and Craigslist

If you’re open to browsing online communities but still want physical books, sites like Freecycle and Craigslist are great for finding free stuff in your area, including books. People often give away books when they’re moving or decluttering, and you can easily snag a few boxes of free books this way.

Link: Freecycle

5. Thrift Stores and Used Bookstores (Free Book Sections)

While most thrift stores and used bookstores focus on selling their items, some of them also feature sections dedicated to free books, particularly older editions or overstocked titles that they need to clear out. I’ve noticed that smaller, independent stores are often more likely to offer a “free bin” where they leave books for customers to take at no cost, or they host periodic free book giveaways or special events. It’s always worth asking the staff if they have any books they’re giving away, as these opportunities aren’t always advertised. Even when free books aren’t available, I’ve managed to purchase great reads for as little as $2, making these stores a budget-friendly option for building your personal library. Don’t overlook these hidden gems—you never know what treasures you might find!

6. Garage Sales

While garage sales are typically places where people sell their items, many sellers include free bins to clear out what they don’t want to bring back inside. Books are often found in these bins, especially if the seller is moving or just decluttering. I’ve had great luck picking up books this way, and you never know what kind of unique finds you might come across.

7. University or School Book Giveaways

If you live near a university or school, they often clear out old books to make room for new materials. These book giveaways can happen at the end of a semester or during renovation periods. Universities sometimes give away outdated textbooks, academic papers, or library copies that are no longer needed.

Tip: Keep an eye on university bulletin boards or websites for any notices about upcoming book giveaways.

My Tips for Finding Free Books Offline:

  • Network with friends: Sometimes your friends and family might have books they’re willing to part with. Consider organizing a small book swap among your circle.
  • Check for local events: Look out for local festivals, community events, or literacy programs. These often have book giveaways or free book fairs.
  • Be patient: Finding free books offline can take time, but if you’re consistent, you’ll build a great collection of books to read.

By combining both online and offline methods, I’ve been able to build an extensive reading list without spending money. Whether you’re a fan of classic literature, contemporary indie works, or just like browsing through used books, these resources offer plenty of opportunities to enjoy reading for free. Happy reading!

Another thing to add

I’ve donated all the books I’ve already read to my local library instead of shelving them, because I believe it’s better for others to enjoy them rather than having them collect dust on my shelves. Donating is a meaningful way for me to give back to my community and share the joy those books brought me. I understand that libraries often depend on donations to grow their collections, especially when budgets are limited. By contributing my books, I’m helping to provide greater access to knowledge, entertainment, and education for everyone. It’s also a sustainable way for me to know my books will be put to good use rather than going to waste. It’s a small gesture that makes a meaningful difference, and it feels good to know my books will continue to inspire others.

Why I Love Maamoul with Dates and a Cup of Tea

Maamoul with dates has always been a personal favorite of mine, and when paired with a warm cup of tea, it becomes something I truly look forward to. There’s a certain comfort and joy that comes with this simple treat, and here’s why I find it so special.

1. The Perfect Sweetness

What I love most about maamoul with dates is its natural sweetness. The dates inside bring a rich, caramel-like flavor that isn’t too overpowering. Unlike sugary desserts, the sweetness of dates feels wholesome and satisfying. When I bite into that buttery, crumbly pastry and reach the soft date filling, it’s like a little piece of heaven.

2. A Relaxing Ritual

Pairing it with a cup of tea makes it even better. The slightly bitter or earthy taste of the tea balances out the sweetness of the dates perfectly. For me, sitting down with maamoul and tea is more than just a snack—it’s a moment to slow down and enjoy a peaceful break in my day. Whether it’s black tea, green tea, or even herbal tea, the combination feels calming and indulgent.

3. A Healthier Treat

Another reason I love maamoul with dates is that it feels like a healthier treat. Dates are naturally rich in fiber, vitamins, and minerals like potassium and magnesium, so I don’t feel too guilty indulging in a few. It’s a dessert that nourishes both body and soul.

4. Tied to Tradition

There’s also something nostalgic about maamoul with dates. I grew up with this pastry being a staple during special occasions like Eid, but now it’s become a year-round favorite. It’s tied to my culture and traditions, and each bite feels like a small connection to home, no matter where I am.

In the end, the combination of maamoul with dates and tea is about comfort, balance, and a little bit of nostalgia. It’s the kind of snack that makes me pause, appreciate the moment, and enjoy something delicious and meaningful. If you haven’t tried it yet, I definitely recommend these two brands down below:

How Joe Foss’s Story Deepened My American Pride

There are books that entertain, books that inform, and then there are books that resonate so deeply that they influence your perspective on life. A Proud American: The Autobiography of Joe Foss falls into that latter category for me. This book isn’t just a historical account of one man’s extraordinary life—it’s a testament to the strength of character, courage, and resilience that are fundamental to the American spirit. Reading Joe Foss’s story didn’t just fill me with admiration for his accomplishments; it inspired me to reflect on my own journey as a Muslim Pakistani American and what it means to truly embody the ideals of this country.

The Story of a True American Hero

Joe Foss’s life is a powerful reminder of what it means to be a hero, not in the superficial sense we sometimes see today, but in the truest, most selfless sense. Foss risked his life during World War II, not for fame or recognition, but because of his love for his country and his comrades. The bravery he displayed in the skies over Guadalcanal, where he earned the Medal of Honor, speaks to a kind of courage that’s rare and admirable. But it wasn’t just his military career that affected me—it was the way he continued to serve his country afterward, becoming a successful governor and playing a key role in founding the American Football League.

As someone who moved to the U.S. and eventually became an American citizen, I found Foss’s story to be deeply moving. It reminded me of the values this country is built upon: sacrifice, hard work, and an unyielding commitment to doing what is right. His life is a reminder that true patriotism is not about grandstanding, but about contributing to the welfare of your fellow citizens, whether that’s through service in the military, leadership in public office, or simply living with integrity.

A Reflection on What it Means to Be American

Joe Foss’s story had a profound effect on how I view my own American identity. As someone who proudly identifies as Muslim, Pakistani, and American, I often reflect on what it means to be part of this great nation. Reading A Proud American reminded me that being American is not about where you come from, but about what you stand for. It’s about resilience, grit, and standing up for what’s right even when it’s difficult. Foss exemplified those qualities throughout his life, and his story inspired me to think more critically about how I can contribute to the country I now call home.

The book also made me appreciate the freedoms and opportunities that the U.S. offers. Foss’s life was a testament to the American Dream—he grew up in South Dakota, became a decorated war hero, and went on to lead both in politics and sports. His story is a reminder that in America, your background doesn’t define your future. It’s the choices you make, the risks you take, and the dedication you show that define you. This idea has deeply influenced my approach to life here in the U.S., encouraging me to pursue my goals with the same tenacity and determination that Foss showed throughout his life.

A Call to Live with Purpose and Integrity

What stood out most to me about Joe Foss’s story was his unwavering sense of purpose and integrity. Whether he was leading men into battle or governing a state, Foss approached every challenge with the same level of commitment and honor. His humility, despite his numerous achievements, was one of the most inspiring aspects of the book. In a time when recognition and self-promotion often take center stage, Foss’s life serves as a reminder that true greatness comes from living with purpose, not seeking praise.

This idea of living with purpose resonated with me personally. It reminded me to reflect on how I can serve my community and make a positive impact in my own way. Whether it’s through my work, my interactions with others, or my efforts to promote understanding between cultures, Foss’s story encouraged me to think about the legacy I want to leave behind as a proud American.

How This Book Strengthened My Love for America

The Proud American didn’t just impact my view of heroism and patriotism—it deepened my love for the country I now call home. Reading about Joe Foss’s sacrifices and his love for America reminded me of how fortunate I am to live in a country where freedom, democracy, and opportunity are upheld. His life story reaffirmed my belief in the principles that make America great, and it inspired me to carry those values forward in my own life.

As someone who moved to the U.S. as a teenager, I often reflect on the contrast between where I came from and the opportunities that being in America has afforded me. Joe Foss’s story solidified my appreciation for those opportunities and reminded me that being American means embracing responsibility, hard work, and service to others. It also made me think about how I can live up to those ideals, especially as someone who comes from a different cultural and religious background. Joe Foss’s life taught me that no matter who you are or where you come from, you can contribute to the betterment of this nation through hard work and integrity.

A Proud American: The Autobiography of Joe FossA Proud American: The Autobiography of Joe Foss by Foss
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

A Proud American: The Autobiography of Joe Foss is more than just an autobiography—it’s an inspiration. It’s a story of true heroism, patriotism, and the kind of values that define America at its core.

For me, this book was a reminder of the blessings of freedom, the power of resilience, and the importance of living with integrity. Joe Foss’s life has inspired me to reflect on my own role as an American, and how I can honor the legacy of those who came before me by contributing to the country I love.

Reading this book has strengthened my sense of pride in being an American, and it has reaffirmed my commitment to living a life guided by purpose, humility, and service to others—just like Joe Foss did.

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Book Review #64 – A Proud American: The Autobiography of Joe Foss

A Proud American: The Autobiography of Joe FossA Proud American: The Autobiography of Joe Foss by Foss
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

A Proud American: The Autobiography of Joe Foss is more than just an autobiography—it’s an inspiration. It’s a story of true heroism, patriotism, and the kind of values that define America at its core.

For me, this book was a reminder of the blessings of freedom, the power of resilience, and the importance of living with integrity. Joe Foss’s life has inspired me to reflect on my own role as an American, and how I can honor the legacy of those who came before me by contributing to the country I love.

Reading this book has strengthened my sense of pride in being an American, and it has reaffirmed my commitment to living a life guided by purpose, humility, and service to others—just like Joe Foss did.

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Why I Am Proud to Be a Muslim Pakistani American

I was born in Pakistan and moved to the United States in 90s when Bill Clinton was President. I was a teenager, attending Thomas Jefferson Middle School in Valparaiso, Indiana. (You can do the math to figure out how old I am now.) Although I’ve spent more years of my life in the U.S., my time in Valparaiso holds unforgettable memories. My middle school science teachers, Mr. Handley and Mrs. Dolezal, taught me “The Pledge of Allegiance.” The day I became a U.S. citizen and later learned the national anthem, I felt immense pride in being American. My journey as a Muslim Pakistani American has shaped who I am today.

Rooted in Heritage

My Pakistani roots remind me of where I come from—a land of rich traditions, history, and vibrant culture. Pakistan has always been a source of pride for me. Its poets, thinkers, and freedom fighters inspire my love for knowledge and justice. Growing up surrounded by Urdu poetry, delicious food, and deep family ties, I carry with me a love for my heritage that keeps me connected to my origins, even while living far from them.

Faith as a Guiding Light

Islam is an integral part of my life. It provides me with a moral compass, guiding my decisions and actions. My faith emphasizes compassion, humility, and service to others. As a Muslim, I’m part of a global community that shares these values, and it reminds me to practice darguzar—to let go and forgive, a principle that I strive to live by daily. Islam teaches me to be patient and kind, to value learning and equality, and to be proud of my identity in a world that often challenges it.

American Spirit

Becoming a U.S. citizen was one of the proudest moments of my life. America, the land of opportunity, welcomed me with open arms. My education in Valparaiso, Indiana as well as California gave me not only academic knowledge but also lessons in tolerance, unity, and civic duty. Learning “The Pledge of Allegiance” and the national anthem made me appreciate the freedoms and responsibilities that come with being American. The U.S. Constitution’s promise of liberty and justice for all resonates deeply with my belief in fairness and equality.

Living a Dual Identity

The fusion of being Pakistani and American provides me with a broadened perspective. I’ve had the chance to experience life in two vastly different cultures, which has shaped me into a more empathetic and open-minded individual. As an immigrant, I learned to balance both worlds, finding strength in my differences while contributing to the vibrant fabric of American society.

Representing Diversity

As a Muslim Pakistani American, I represent the diversity that makes the United States so remarkable. My identity challenges stereotypes and demonstrates that Americans come from various walks of life, faiths, and ethnicities. I’m proud to be a living testament to the idea that one can be both proudly Muslim and passionately American, without compromising either.

A Future of Hope and Possibilities

Being Muslim, Pakistani, and American gives me hope for the future. My identity is dynamic—it evolves with the times while staying rooted in the values I hold dear. It allows me to contribute to my community, stand for social justice, and promote understanding between different cultures.

Why I Am Proud to Be American

Freedom and Opportunity

One of the most profound reasons I’m proud to be an American is the freedom this country offers. The United States is built on the idea that anyone, regardless of where they come from, can achieve their dreams through hard work and determination. I’ve experienced this firsthand. From attending school in Indiana to earning my citizenship, I’ve been given the tools and opportunities to shape my own future. The American Dream isn’t just an abstract concept; it’s a reality that I live and continue to strive for.

The ability to pursue a career, access quality education, and express my opinions without fear of persecution is something I deeply value. The freedom to speak, worship, and live according to my beliefs is a privilege I hold dear, especially as someone coming from a different cultural and religious background. This country has given me the space to practice my faith freely while also being part of the diverse American society.

Civic Pride and Democracy

What makes America stand out is its commitment to democracy. The idea that the people have a voice in their government is incredibly empowering. I take pride in participating in elections, knowing that my vote counts and that my voice contributes to the shaping of policies that affect the entire nation. This democratic system is a foundation for freedom, equality, and justice, and I’m proud to be part of a nation where power rests with the people.

Learning “The Pledge of Allegiance” in middle school was my first introduction to this concept. The words “liberty and justice for all” resonated deeply with me. As I grew older, I realized how much sacrifice and effort went into preserving these ideals. Being American means upholding these values and recognizing that, while the system isn’t perfect, we have the ability to push for positive change through peaceful and democratic means.

Cultural Melting Pot

The diversity of the U.S. is another source of pride for me. As a country built by immigrants, America is a melting pot of cultures, religions, and traditions. This diversity has allowed me to stay connected to my Pakistani roots while also embracing American culture. I can celebrate Eid and also enjoy Thanksgiving—this blend of cultures is what makes America special. The acceptance of different ways of life, the respect for various backgrounds, and the celebration of multiculturalism are deeply ingrained in American society.

America’s diversity has taught me tolerance and acceptance. I’ve met people from all walks of life, and we’ve shared our stories, cultures, and experiences. This exchange of ideas and traditions is a hallmark of the American experience and one that I’m incredibly proud of.

Resilience and Progress

America’s history is one of resilience and constant progress. From the fight for independence to the civil rights movement, this nation has a long tradition of overcoming challenges and pushing toward a more just and inclusive society. As an American, I’m proud of the strides we’ve made and continue to make in addressing issues of inequality and injustice.

This drive for progress, equality, and freedom is what defines the American spirit. It is a nation constantly evolving, learning from its mistakes, and striving to do better. The resilience of the American people in the face of adversity is something that inspires me. Whether it’s recovering from economic downturns, standing together in the wake of tragedies, or fighting for the rights of the marginalized, America continues to move forward, and I’m proud to be part of that ongoing journey.

The Spirit of Innovation

The U.S. is renowned for its innovation, creativity, and advancements in science, technology, and the arts. Being American means being part of a nation that encourages bold ideas and groundbreaking discoveries. The freedom to think outside the box, to challenge the status quo, and to pioneer new paths is something that defines the American ethos. This spirit of innovation has led to life-changing inventions, technological breakthroughs, and cultural revolutions that have shaped the modern world.

As a Pakistani American, I appreciate how the U.S. encourages individuals from all backgrounds to contribute to its advancements. From Silicon Valley to medical research, the possibilities are endless, and it’s exciting to be part of a country that not only fosters but celebrates innovation.

Commitment to Justice and Equality

While the U.S. is not without its flaws, one thing I admire is its ongoing commitment to justice and equality. The nation’s foundation rests on the ideals of “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness” for all its citizens, and this commitment has been tested and strengthened over the years. As an American, I’m proud of the progress that’s been made toward ensuring that everyone, regardless of race, religion, or background, has a fair shot at achieving their dreams.

America’s legal and civil rights system, while imperfect, continues to evolve toward greater inclusivity and fairness. Being part of a country that actively works to live up to its ideals inspires me to contribute to that mission of justice for all.

Spicy Beef Curry: A Flavorful Journey Without Yogurt, Garlic, or Ginger

When it comes to cooking a classic beef curry, most recipes will tell you that yogurt, garlic, and ginger are essential ingredients for a rich, balanced flavor. But what happens when you don’t have them on hand? This is exactly what happened to me today when I was about to cook lunch. I found myself cooking without yogurt, garlic, or ginger simply because I didn’t have them at home—and to my surprise, the result was still absolutely delicious!

In my Ammi’s kitchen, I love experimenting with spices and ingredients, and one of my proudest creations is this spicy beef curry made without those “yogurt, garlic and ginger” ingredients. You might think that skipping them would leave the dish lacking, but I’ve found that with the right techniques and some creative adjustments, you can still create a vibrant, mouthwatering curry.

The Base: Onion & Tomato Magic

Since I was missing garlic and ginger, I relied heavily on onions and tomatoes to form the base of the curry. I started by sautéing finely chopped onions until they turned golden brown, which is crucial for adding sweetness and depth. Then, I added chopped tomatoes. As they cooked down, they released a natural tanginess, which worked well to replace the usual yogurt’s role in balancing the heat of the spices.

The Spices: The Real Stars of the Show

Spices are where the magic happens. Even without garlic and ginger, I used cumin seeds, bay leaves, cinnamon, cardamom, and cloves to bring warmth and aroma to the dish. These whole spices, along with ground turmeric, coriander, cumin, and red chili powder, provided the bold, spicy character of the curry. Since garlic and ginger were missing, I made sure to bloom the spices properly, ensuring they unlocked their full potential. The cumin and coriander added earthiness, while the red chili powder brought a fiery punch.

I also added green chilies early on, which worked alongside the tomatoes to give the curry a fresh, fiery kick. Finally, I finished it off with a sprinkle of garam masala, which added complexity and warmth to the dish.

Cooking the Beef: Slow & Steady Wins the Race

I used chunks of beef in the curry, which absorbed the spicy gravy as they cooked. Patience was key here, as slow simmering made the beef wonderfully tender. After browning the meat with the spice base, I let it simmer slowly, allowing the flavors to penetrate every bite. The longer it simmers, the better the result, and I love how the beef transforms in texture and flavor.

Final Touches

To finish, I garnished the curry with fresh cilantro, which added a hint of brightness and contrast to the rich, spiced sauce. Sometimes, I serve it with a wedge of lemon for those who enjoy a citrusy zing.

Recipe: Spicy Beef Curry Without Yogurt, Garlic, or Ginger

Here’s my spicy beef curry recipe when I’m missing these so-called essentials (yogurt, garlic and ginger) but still want a rich, spicy beef curry:

Ingredients:

  • 500g beef, cut into bite-sized cubes
  • 2 large onions, finely chopped
  • 3 medium tomatoes, chopped
  • 2-3 green chilies, slit (adjust according to heat preference)
  • 1 tsp cumin seeds
  • 1-2 bay leaves
  • 1 cinnamon stick (1-inch piece)
  • 3-4 cloves
  • 2-3 cardamom pods
  • 1 tsp turmeric powder
  • 1 tsp red chili powder (adjust to taste)
  • 2 tsp coriander powder
  • 1 tsp cumin powder
  • ½ tsp garam masala
  • Salt to taste
  • 2 tbsp oil or ghee
  • Fresh cilantro leaves for garnish
  • Lemon wedges (optional)

Instructions:

  1. Heat Oil: In a large pan, heat oil or ghee over medium heat. Add cumin seeds, bay leaves, cinnamon stick, cloves, and cardamom pods. Sauté for a minute until fragrant.
  2. Add Onions: Add finely chopped onions and cook until they turn golden brown. This step is important to develop the rich base flavor of the curry.
  3. Add Tomatoes & Chilies: Stir in chopped tomatoes and green chilies. Cook until the tomatoes soften and the oil starts to separate from the mixture. This creates the tangy sauce that replaces the yogurt’s balancing effect.
  4. Add Spices: Add turmeric, red chili powder, coriander powder, and cumin powder. Cook the spices for 2-3 minutes to release their flavors and aromas.
  5. Cook Beef: Add the beef pieces to the pan and stir well to coat them in the spice mixture. Cook the beef for about 5 minutes, browning it on all sides.
  6. Simmer: Pour in enough water to cover the beef. Bring it to a boil, then lower the heat. Cover and simmer for 1-1.5 hours, stirring occasionally, until the beef is tender. Add more water if necessary.
  7. Finish with Garam Masala: Once the beef is tender and the gravy has thickened, sprinkle garam masala and adjust salt if needed. Cook for another 5 minutes.
  8. Garnish: Garnish with fresh cilantro leaves and serve with rice, naan, or roti. For an extra kick, serve with lemon wedges on the side.

And there you have it—a hearty, spicy beef curry that proves you don’t need yogurt, garlic, or ginger to make an unforgettable dish. Despite cooking without them because I didn’t have them at home, the curry turned out vibrant, flavorful, and satisfying. So, the next time you find yourself missing these “must-have” ingredients, just remember that creativity and the right spices can still deliver amazing results!

How I Learned to Stay Calm and Be More Upfront When I Don’t Like Something or Go With the Best “Durguzar”

In life, we often encounter situations that make us uncomfortable, frustrated, or even upset. For many years, I struggled with how to handle these moments. I either kept my feelings to myself, leading to pent-up resentment, or expressed them too late and too harshly. Finding the balance between staying calm and being upfront when I didn’t like something was not easy. However, through self-reflection, practice, and some effective techniques, I managed to develop a healthier approach.

Acknowledging the Need for Change

I realized the need for change after experiencing repeated situations where avoiding confrontation only led to stress and strained relationships. Whether it was staying silent when someone made an offhand comment or agreeing to things I wasn’t comfortable with, the internal pressure built up over time. I would go over conversations in my head, thinking about what I should have said, but rarely acted on those thoughts. I came to understand that staying quiet wasn’t protecting me—it was hurting me.

This realization was a turning point. I needed to learn how to express my feelings without waiting until I was too overwhelmed to do so effectively.

Techniques to Stay Calm

One of the first steps I took was learning how to stay calm in tense moments. Here are some techniques that helped:

Mindfulness and Meditation

I started practicing mindfulness, which helped me stay present in difficult conversations. Instead of spiraling into negative thoughts or overreacting, mindfulness allowed me to observe my feelings without judgment. This made it easier to approach discussions with clarity rather than frustration.

Breathing Techniques

Breathing is simple, but incredibly powerful. I found that deep breathing exercises, particularly slow inhales and exhales, helped me calm down quickly. Whenever I felt anxiety rising, I focused on my breath, which gave me time to reset my emotions before responding.

Reading the Quran

For me, reading the Quran has been a profound source of calm and grounding. In moments of stress or uncertainty, turning to the Quran not only brings me spiritual peace but also offers guidance on how to navigate difficult situations. The messages of patience, wisdom, and kindness within the verses remind me to approach everything with a sense of balance and self-control.

Here are some Quran verses that may help you calm down and be grounded:

Surat Al-Baqarah 2 Verse 153

“O believers! Seek comfort in patience and prayer. Allah is truly with those who are patient”.

Ash-Sharh 94 Verses 5-6

“For indeed, with hardship [will be] ease. Indeed, with hardship [will be] ease”

Ghafir 40 Verse 60

“And your Lord says, ‘Call upon Me; I will respond to you'”.

Surah Ali ‘Imran 3 Verse 7

He is the One Who has revealed to you ˹O Prophet˺ the Book, of which some verses are precise—they are the foundation of the Book—while others are elusive.1 Those with deviant hearts follow the elusive verses seeking ˹to spread˺ doubt through their ˹false˺ interpretations—but none grasps their ˹full˺ meaning except Allah. As for those well-grounded in knowledge, they say, “We believe in this ˹Quran˺—it is all from our Lord.” But none will be mindful ˹of this˺ except people of reason.

Surah Ar-Rum 30 Verse 54

It is Allah Who created you in a state of weakness, then developed ˹your˺ weakness into strength, then developed ˹your˺ strength into weakness and old age.1 He creates whatever He wills. For He is the All-Knowing, Most Capable.

Hobbies and Comedy Movies

Engaging in hobbies I love, whether it’s painting, reading all sort of books, or simply being creative, helps me clear my mind and recharge. These activities give me time to reflect, helping me return to conversations with a calmer mindset.

Similarly, watching comedy movies is a favorite go-to. Humor has a way of dissolving tension and offering perspective. After a good laugh, I often find myself in a lighter mood, making it easier to be upfront in a gentle and positive way. These small joys work wonders in resetting my emotions and preparing me to approach challenging conversations with more clarity.

Pause Before Reacting

I also learned to pause. Giving myself even just a few seconds before responding allowed me to process what was happening, gather my thoughts, and avoid snapping back emotionally. The pause was key in helping me stay composed and intentional in my responses.

Learning to Communicate Assertively

With these calming techniques in place, I turned my attention to communication. I knew that staying calm wasn’t enough—I needed to be upfront about my feelings, but in a way that was constructive and clear.

Clear Communication

I realized that I had to be direct, but not aggressive. Instead of saying vague things like “I don’t know” or “It’s fine” when something bothered me, I began to practice clear and honest communication. I would say things like, “I’m uncomfortable with this,” or “I don’t agree with that,” which made my perspective clear while still being respectful.

Setting Boundaries

Setting boundaries was also a big part of this process. I used to feel guilty about saying no or expressing when something wasn’t working for me. But I learned that by setting clear boundaries, I could protect my energy and emotional well-being. This didn’t mean being rigid or inflexible, but simply ensuring that I honored my own limits.

Non-verbal Cues

I also became more aware of my non-verbal cues. Often, our tone of voice or body language can communicate just as much as words. By maintaining calm eye contact, using a neutral tone, and standing or sitting confidently, I could reinforce the message that I was being upfront in a composed way, not aggressive or defensive.

Practice Makes Perfect

Like anything, this took practice. I didn’t wake up one day suddenly able to handle every tough conversation perfectly. I started small—by expressing myself in low-stakes situations. Over time, this built my confidence. I found that as I became more comfortable, being upfront felt less like a confrontation and more like a necessary and healthy exchange.

If None of This Works: “Darguzar”—Let It Go

Despite all these techniques, sometimes the best solution is to let go. In my language, we have a word for this: “darguzar,” which means to let it go and forgive. If you’ve tried staying calm, communicating clearly, and setting boundaries but the situation remains unresolved or out of your control, it’s essential to embrace forgiveness and move forward.

Letting go doesn’t mean you’ve been defeated or that your feelings aren’t valid—it means you’re choosing peace over conflict. By practicing “darguzar,” I’ve learned that not every battle needs to be fought. There’s freedom in accepting that some things are better left behind, and with forgiveness comes emotional relief. It allows me to maintain my inner calm and focus on the things that truly matter.

The Positive Outcomes

The results of this shift have been transformative. By staying calm and being clear about my feelings, I’ve seen significant improvements in my relationships—both personal and professional. People have responded positively to my honesty, and I’ve earned more respect for standing my ground without being combative. Additionally, the anxiety that once accompanied difficult conversations has greatly diminished, leaving me with a sense of control and confidence in how I handle these situations.

Perhaps the most surprising benefit has been how this change has impacted my self-esteem. By being true to myself, setting boundaries, and speaking up calmly, I’ve grown more confident in my own voice. I no longer second-guess my feelings or question whether I should have said something. Instead, I feel empowered by knowing that I can address issues head-on without losing my composure.

At Last Statement

Learning to stay calm and be more upfront when I don’t like something has been a game-changer. It’s an ongoing journey, but one that has brought immense peace and growth into my life. If you struggle with similar issues, know that you don’t have to choose between staying silent or erupting in frustration. With mindfulness, clear communication, and a commitment to honoring your own boundaries, you can find that balance too. And if none of this works, remember the power of “darguzar”—letting go and forgiving can bring its own form of calm and closure.

Book Review #63 – Fck Your Feelings: Master Your Mind, Accomplish Any Goal, and Become A More Significant Human

F*ck Your Feelings: Master Your Mind, Accomplish Any Goal, and Become A More Significant HumanF*ck Your Feelings: Master Your Mind, Accomplish Any Goal, and Become A More Significant Human by Ryan Munsey
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Ryan Munsey really grabbed my attention with its bold title, and it delivered exactly what I expected—a no-nonsense, tough-love approach to self-improvement. Munsey’s message is simple but powerful: feelings can often sabotage our progress, and the key to success is mastering our minds and pushing through discomfort with discipline.

As I read through the book, I appreciated how Munsey backs up his advice with insights from neuroscience and psychology, making it more than just motivational talk. He explains how emotions can trick us into making bad decisions or giving up too soon, and I found his focus on mental toughness and self-discipline particularly useful. It felt like a wake-up call to stop letting feelings dictate my actions and instead commit to what’s necessary for long-term success.

What really stood out to me was how actionable the advice is. Munsey doesn’t just tell you to “get tough”—he provides concrete strategies to overcome self-doubt, build resilience, and create habits that lead to real progress. I found myself taking notes and thinking about ways I could apply his lessons in my own life.

That being said, the book’s tough-love approach might not be for everyone. Personally, I enjoyed the directness, but I could see how some people might find the tone a bit harsh or aggressive. If you’re someone who prefers a more gentle, supportive style, this book might feel too intense. However, if you’re ready to face your excuses head-on and make real changes, Munsey’s straightforward style is incredibly motivating.

Overall, Fck Your Feelings* is a great read if you’re serious about breaking through mental barriers and taking control of your life. It’s not here to comfort you, but if you’re looking for practical, tough advice to get you on the right track, this book hits the mark.

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Reading Broadly and Sharing Reviews on Goodreads

For the past 9 years, reading has been one of my most treasured habits. It’s more than just THAT; it’s a powerful way to expand my mind, challenge my perspectives, and engage with ideas across a broad spectrum of human thought. I find myself constantly drawn to books from different genres and disciplines, from science fiction to psychology, from history to self-development. The diverse range of subjects that I explore allows me to cultivate a deeper understanding of the world and myself. And what completes this cycle of learning and reflection is posting reviews on Goodreads.

Here’s why this habit has become an integral part of my life

Expanding Knowledge Through Variety

Reading books on a variety of topics gives me access to a wealth of knowledge. Each genre or subject brings something unique to the table. Fiction fosters creativity and empathy, history provides context to the present, psychology unveils the intricacies of the mind, and self-help offers strategies for growth. By exploring various genres, I can engage with new ideas, broaden my horizons, and make connections between seemingly unrelated topics.

For example, reading historical novels allows me to understand the socio-political fabric of a particular era, while books on neuroscience help me appreciate the inner workings of the human brain. The cross-pollination of knowledge from different fields fuels my curiosity, making each book an enriching experience. And reading diverse topics isn’t just about acquiring facts—it helps me understand different worldviews and fosters a more inclusive and well-rounded approach to life.

Engaging in Self-Reflection and Critical Thinking

Every book I read offers an opportunity to reflect on my own beliefs, values, and assumptions. Whether I agree or disagree with the author, reading often triggers introspection. A novel might make me question my relationships or lifestyle, while a nonfiction book might challenge my understanding of societal issues or scientific concepts.

By reviewing these books on Goodreads, I get a chance to articulate my thoughts and reactions. Writing reviews allows me to crystallize my ideas and engage in critical thinking. It’s not just about summarizing the book, but reflecting on how it impacted me, what I learned, and how it fits into the broader context of my intellectual journey. Each review becomes a snapshot of where I am in my thinking at a particular point in time.

Creating a Personal Learning Archive

Goodreads has become more than just a platform to share reviews; it’s a personal archive of my learning journey. When I look back at the reviews I’ve written, I can trace the evolution of my thoughts, preferences, and interests. It’s fascinating to observe how my understanding of certain topics has deepened over time or how a novel that didn’t resonate with me a year ago now holds new significance.

Writing reviews allows me to revisit books I’ve read, remember the insights I’ve gained, and sometimes even reassess them with a fresh perspective. This digital archive becomes a roadmap of my intellectual and emotional growth.

Contributing to a Community of Readers

One of the most rewarding aspects of posting reviews on Goodreads is the connection it fosters with a global community of readers. Goodreads is a space where readers come together to share their thoughts, recommendations, and insights. By posting my reviews, I’m contributing to this exchange of ideas, sparking discussions, and sometimes discovering new books based on the recommendations of others.

Sharing my thoughts on a book can also help others decide whether it’s worth their time or align with their interests. Reading other people’s reviews, in turn, offers different perspectives that I might have missed. It’s an intellectually stimulating environment that enhances my reading experience.

Accountability and Motivation

Knowing that I will write a review at the end of each book adds a layer of accountability to my reading. It encourages me to read more actively and attentively. Instead of passively consuming content, I engage more deeply with the material, knowing that I’ll need to articulate my thoughts later.

Moreover, the Goodreads community provides motivation to keep reading. Seeing friends’ updates, participating in reading challenges, and following book discussions keeps me inspired to maintain my reading habit. It’s a positive feedback loop that helps me stay connected to books and literature.

Developing Writing Skills

Writing reviews is also an excellent way to hone my writing skills. By practicing the art of summarizing complex ideas, evaluating arguments, and expressing opinions concisely, I improve my ability to communicate effectively. Each review presents a challenge: how can I convey my thoughts clearly while providing enough detail to be useful to others?

Over time, I’ve noticed that writing reviews has helped me become a better writer, not just in my Goodreads posts, but in other areas of life. Whether it’s composing emails, writing blog posts, crafting presentations, or even having discussions with friends, the clarity of thought and expression that reviewing books requires has had a ripple effect on my overall communication abilities.

Last but not least: A Journey of Lifelong Learning

Reading books across various topics and posting reviews on Goodreads is a rewarding practice that brings numerous benefits. It fosters intellectual growth, self-reflection, and community engagement. It sharpens my writing skills and helps me stay motivated in my reading habits. Most importantly, it reminds me that the journey of learning is never over; there is always another book to read, another perspective to consider, and another review to write. Through this practice, I continue to explore the world, both within and beyond the pages of a book, with a sense of curiosity and wonder.

The Evolving World of Technology: What Years of Writing Have Taught Me

Having spent a significant amount of time writing about technologies, I’ve gained deep insights into the ever-evolving landscape of innovation. Over the years, my exploration into various technological fields has offered me a unique perspective on how technology shapes our world, influences industries, and transforms human interactions. I have witnessed firsthand how rapidly technological advancements can change the course of history, redefine how we live and work, and push the boundaries of what we once thought possible. Through this journey, I’ve learned valuable lessons about adaptability, the pace of change, and the critical importance of ethical considerations in tech development.

The Evolution of Technology

Writing about technology has allowed me to follow the trajectory of several game-changing innovations—from the rise of personal computers to the advent of smartphones, and now the current waves of artificial intelligence, blockchain, and quantum computing. Each new breakthrough, no matter how revolutionary it seems at the time, often emerges from a chain of incremental advancements. Understanding this evolutionary process has been one of the most important takeaways from my work.

For instance, artificial intelligence (AI) did not emerge overnight. Decades of research, experimentation, and failed attempts led to the sophisticated AI systems we have today. Following these developments closely has shown me that the most impactful technologies are those that evolve gradually, overcoming challenges through persistence and creativity. The iterative nature of tech evolution has taught me patience and respect for the process, as even the most revolutionary innovations often require years, if not decades, to fully mature and integrate into society.

The Importance of Adaptability

Another critical lesson I’ve learned through my years of writing about technology is the importance of adaptability. Technology moves at a rapid pace, and staying informed means being prepared to continuously learn and adapt. The tools, platforms, and innovations I wrote about a decade ago have either evolved dramatically or been replaced by more efficient solutions. The smartphone revolution, for example, has transformed into a broader ecosystem that now includes wearables, smart home devices, and interconnected systems driven by the Internet of Things (IoT).

Remaining adaptable in this fast-paced environment requires a mindset open to continuous learning. The technologies of tomorrow will look very different from those we know today, but the ability to engage with these shifts, learn their implications, and effectively communicate their potential to others has been crucial. Embracing change rather than fearing it has allowed me to not only stay relevant but also to maintain excitement about the future of technology.

The Role of Technology in Shaping Society

One of the most profound realizations I’ve had while covering technological trends is how technology shapes society on both macro and micro levels. Technologies are not just tools we use; they fundamentally reshape how we interact with one another, how businesses operate, and even how governments function. The internet itself has revolutionized communication, democratized access to information, and redefined the concept of community. In recent years, social media has completely transformed how we share ideas, news, and personal stories, becoming both a force for connection and, in some cases, division.

Beyond social media, the rise of automation and AI is poised to redefine the future of work. As I’ve explored these subjects, I’ve come to understand the dual nature of technological change—how it can create opportunities for progress and innovation while also presenting challenges, such as job displacement and ethical concerns around privacy and security. Technology’s societal impact has never been more apparent than during the COVID-19 pandemic when digital tools became essential for education, business continuity, and healthcare. The pandemic accelerated the adoption of technologies such as remote working platforms, telemedicine, and digital payments, permanently altering various sectors of society.

Ethical Considerations in Technology

Another invaluable lesson I’ve gained from my writing journey is the importance of ethical considerations in technology development and implementation. As technology continues to evolve, so too do the ethical dilemmas it introduces. Issues such as data privacy, the use of AI in surveillance, and the environmental impact of tech production have come to the forefront of public and academic debate. The rapid rise of facial recognition technology, for instance, has raised concerns about mass surveillance and individual privacy rights.

As I’ve delved deeper into these topics, I’ve come to realize that the role of a technology writer is not just to inform about new advancements but also to critically evaluate their broader implications. We must question how these technologies are being used, who benefits from them, and who might be left behind. Writing about technology has opened my eyes to the growing need for ethical frameworks to guide innovation and ensure that progress is equitable and inclusive.

The Power of Storytelling in Technology

One of the greatest joys of writing about technology is the ability to tell the stories behind these innovations. Technology is, at its core, a human endeavor. It is driven by the curiosity, creativity, and determination of individuals and teams who strive to push the boundaries of what we can achieve. From small startups to major tech giants, there are countless stories of struggle, perseverance, and breakthrough that shape the world of technology.

Through storytelling, I’ve been able to connect readers with the human aspect of tech. It’s not just about the gadgets or the code; it’s about how these innovations change lives and inspire new ways of thinking. The narratives behind technological advancements add depth to my writing and help readers engage with complex concepts by relating them to personal experiences, challenges, and triumphs.

Looking to the Future

As I continue my journey writing about technologies, I recognize that the future holds even more exciting, unpredictable developments. Emerging fields such as quantum computing, biotech, and space exploration are just a few of the areas where we are likely to see significant breakthroughs in the coming decades. My role as a writer will be to continue following these trends, learning from experts, and helping readers understand the transformative power of these technologies.

As I conclude this article, I want to share that writing about technology over the years has been both challenging and rewarding. It has offered me a unique front-row view of some of the most significant advancements of our era, while imparting crucial lessons on adaptability, the ethical considerations of innovation, and the power of storytelling. As technology continues to evolve, I am excited to witness—and document—the new horizons we are destined to explore.

If you’re interested in diving deeper into the latest technological advancements and trends, you can explore more at crunchychip.com, where you’ll find a wealth of resources on emerging technologies.

Book Review #62 – Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap… and Others Don’t

Good to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap... and Others Don'tGood to Great: Why Some Companies Make the Leap… and Others Don’t by Jim Collins
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

The book Good to Great offers a fresh perspective on why many businesses hit a ceiling, falling into the trap of believing they are “good enough” to fulfill their functions. It focuses on analyzing companies that successfully transitioned from good to great, while also warning about the risks faced by those that fail to break through this threshold. The book presents several valuable concepts, such as the Hedgehog Concept, Level 5 Leadership, and establishing a culture of discipline. Managers are encouraged to adopt these principles within their own organizations to overcome the complacency of being merely good and strive for greatness. Many businesses settle for being good, which prevents them from ever achieving true excellence.

However, Jim Collins’ book shows its age in certain aspects, such as citing Circuit City as an example of a company that went from good to great. While the company may have once thrived, its ultimate failure may lead future readers to question the validity of Collins’ concepts. Additionally, Collins warns against over-reliance on technology in running a business. While this advice stemmed from the collapse of Dotcom companies in the early 2000s, today, technology is much more reliable and is now widely seen as a crucial factor in driving improvement and efficiency.

Despite its age, it would be unfair to dismiss the book. The ideas presented remain highly valuable, especially for those new to management and continuous improvement. The book is easy to read and offers clear steps for recognizing when a company has not reached its full potential and how to address those shortcomings.

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Book Review #61 – The Secret History

The Secret HistoryThe Secret History by Donna Tartt
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Donna Tartt’s The Secret History is a gripping and thought-provoking novel that pulls readers into a world of privilege, intellectual obsession, and moral decay. Set in an elite liberal arts college in Vermont, the story follows a group of eccentric and highly intelligent students studying ancient Greek under the enigmatic professor, Julian Morrow. The protagonist, Richard Papen, arrives at Hampden College from a modest background and quickly becomes fascinated with this elite group, eventually joining their tightly-knit circle. What begins as a pursuit of beauty and knowledge soon spirals into a dark, psychological unraveling, culminating in murder.

Tartt’s writing is lush, atmospheric, and richly detailed, creating an immersive reading experience that draws you into the cold, isolated campus setting. Her ability to explore complex themes like guilt, morality, and the consequences of hubris is exceptional. Through the story, she delves into the idea of how intellectual pursuits can be corrupted by arrogance and a sense of superiority, leading the characters to justify their actions—even murder—under the guise of seeking something greater than themselves.

The strength of The Secret History lies not only in its plot but in its deeply flawed and fascinating characters. Each member of the group is distinct and richly developed, particularly Henry, the intellectual leader of the clique, whose cold rationality and obsession with classical ideals set the tone for their tragic downfall. Richard’s journey as a narrator is equally compelling—he’s an outsider trying to fit into this world of wealth and mystery, but his complicity in the group’s actions ultimately challenges his own sense of morality.

The novel is a slow burn, unfolding at a measured pace that allows readers to sink deeply into its chilling atmosphere. The tension builds steadily, and though the murder is revealed early on, the psychological aftermath of the crime becomes the true focus of the narrative. Tartt masterfully examines the consequences of the group’s actions and the psychological toll it takes on them as they try to maintain their façade of normalcy.

Overall, The Secret History is a brilliant exploration of the darker sides of intellectual elitism, the seductive allure of beauty and knowledge, and the devastating consequences of moral compromise. Tartt’s prose is elegant, her storytelling is suspenseful, and her characters are unforgettable. This novel is a must-read for anyone who enjoys literary fiction with psychological depth and moral complexity.

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Book Review #60 – The Road

The RoadThe Road by Cormac McCarthy
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Cormac McCarthy’s The Road tells a haunting yet compelling story set in a post-apocalyptic world, where a father and his son struggle to survive. The novel follows their journey as they search for a better life in a desolate and hopeless landscape. Along the way, they encounter rare moments of good fortune, such as abandoned houses offering shelter and supplies, or even an untouched can of Coca-Cola—a small treasure in their bleak world. However, these brief glimpses of comfort are vastly outnumbered by the terrifying dangers they face. Menacing groups of people threaten their lives, and the father’s deteriorating health adds to their challenges. Without giving away too much, I will say that at its core, this book is a profound exploration of unconditional love. The father’s devotion to his son is unwavering throughout the novel, and he does everything in his power to provide even the smallest measure of happiness for him. The ending is powerful, deeply moving, and undeniably heartbreaking, but I’ll leave it at that to avoid spoiling it for those who haven’t read it yet.

One of the things that stands out in The Road is how vividly McCarthy brings the post-apocalyptic world to life. His descriptions are detailed and immersive, pulling the reader into the stark, barren landscape the characters inhabit. McCarthy’s choice to strip away certain punctuation, like quotation marks, adds to the sense of disarray and loss in this world. It’s a subtle but effective way of making the environment feel even more empty and bleak. His craftsmanship is unmatched, and the way he paints such a vivid picture of this grim reality is nothing short of masterful. Readers will find themselves drawn into the story not just by the plot, but by McCarthy’s ability to make this fictional world feel disturbingly real.

Another remarkable aspect of the novel is its capacity to offer an escape from reality. While reading, I often found myself completely absorbed, losing track of time and space as I became fully immersed in the story. This world McCarthy creates is not a fantastical escape, but rather a brutally honest depiction of what life might be like in such a grim future. It’s this raw portrayal of survival in a broken world that makes the novel so captivating. It offers readers a chance to escape their everyday problems by plunging into a reality that feels both distant and eerily possible.

In conclusion, if you’re considering reading The Road, I wholeheartedly recommend it. It’s a gripping tale of survival and a testament to the enduring bond between father and son. McCarthy’s writing is both harrowing and beautiful, and this book will leave a lasting impression on anyone who reads it. It’s a journey that’s as unforgettable as it is heart-wrenching.

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Book Review #59 – A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius

A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering GeniusA Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius by Dave Eggers
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Someone recommended this book to me with the comment, “This is so you. You’re going to love it.” They were right—at least about the loving part. I’m not sure if I write, think, or act like Eggers, but if I do, I take it as a compliment.

This quickly became one of my all-time favorite books. From the very first pages, I was hooked by how conversational Eggers remained with the reader. I really appreciate that, especially I like to be just, where straightforward communication is often terse and formal. Sometimes, the warmest and most engaging conversations are the ones that are long, nuanced, and complex, even if the underlying ideas are simple.

For me, a good book is one that makes me think, not just follow a plot. A great book is one that makes me jot down thoughts in the margins, and this book had me turning entire pages into a notepad. While it tells an interesting story, what made it extraordinary were Eggers’ reflections on the world around him. Too many writers simply describe events without sharing their thoughts or feelings about them. Most of us are used to those kinds of books, where the plot keeps us engaged, but the end result feels superficial. Often, I finish such books feeling accomplished, but that excitement quickly fades into dissatisfaction. I never understood why until I read Eggers. He reminded me that an author can offer much more than just an entertaining story. I now believe writers have a responsibility to do so.

Though I’m not a fan of gimmicks and was initially skeptical about the random quirks Eggers included—like the odd copyright page at the beginning or the strange autobiographical note at the end—his self-awareness and humor put me at ease. Few things draw a reader closer to an author than when they can laugh at themselves. The book is filled with moments like that. For instance, Eggers warns early on that the book becomes a bit boring towards the end, and he’s right. But when you reach that part and recall his warning, you’re still amazed by how great it is. Maybe it’s because it’s a memoir, or because Eggers draws you into his life, making you feel as though you’ve known him for years. Or maybe it’s the desire not to agree with a comment that should, in theory, discourage you from finishing the book. Whatever the reason, even at its slowest points, A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius lives up to its title—genius.

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Book Review #58 – Beowulf: A New Verse Translation

Beowulf: A New Verse TranslationBeowulf: A New Verse Translation by Seamus Heaney
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Literature can be a form of social anthropology. Just as the Iliad can take you into the warlike mindset of the ancient Greeks; Beowulf takes you into the warlike mindset of the Anglo-Saxon invaders of Britain back in the days of Sutton Hoo. Not only is Beowulf a great piece of epic poetry – complete with super hero, fabulous monsters, and a killer dragon; it’s also a superb piece of cultural history – complete with great halls ringing with toasts of mead in horn cups and men who sleep fully armored and armed. The big problem with Beowulf in old English is that just as the culture is so remote and alien to be fascinating, the English language at the time is also utterly alien and incomprehensible. This was a quarter millennium before the Norman Conquest – the great fusion of Germanic and romance that would produce our language as we know it.

Previous translations – like the one I suffered through in Middle School, are stilted and arcane.
(Also did a role playing as well in my English class singing and dancing) They sacrifice narrative flow for a false kind of fidelity to the text. Seamus Heaney’s translation dances and sings. The language is lyrical and feels like epic poetry – but the narrative flow is easy and intuitive. With the difficulty of comprehension out of the way the story comes to the fore and what a story it is. This is the real root of Fantasy literature – a misty world of barbaric knights, monsters, magic, blood kinship and blood feud. The tale is familiar to most – the great Great hero comes to the aid of a distant king whose country is beset by a horrible monster; one immune to weapons… Ok, no spoilers. If you are interested in the roots of English literature, or in the culture of the dark ages Anglo Saxon, this book will illuminate like nothing else.

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Book Review #57 – Secrets of Divine Love: A Spiritual Journey into the Heart of Islam

Secrets of Divine Love: A Spiritual Journey into the Heart of IslamSecrets of Divine Love: A Spiritual Journey into the Heart of Islam by A. Helwa
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

You must read this. I cannot stress how highly I suggest this book. I’ve always loved God, but I’ve also felt terrible remorse, like I disappointed him out. Naturally, I am aware of God’s mercy because “Ar Rahim” is one of his names. The love I believed I had for our Creator, however, was strengthened and multiplied as a result of this book, and whatever guilt I felt was unjustified. My anxiety was quickly reduced. When you truly realize that Allah loves us via the use of straight verses and surahs from the Quran, poetry, and the writings of Rumi, you start to comprehend the essence and beauty of our religion. And once you genuinely comprehend Allah’s love, you make an effort to never lack.

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Book Review #56 – What To Say When You Talk To Your Self

What To Say When You Talk To Your SelfWhat To Say When You Talk To Your Self by Shad Helmstetter
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

After reading a couple of books on self-mastery and mental habits, I found myself unarmed with a practical method for actually creating change in my life. While plenty of books can tell you to live in the present or remove fear from your mind, I struggled with the question of “how”. *What To Say When You Talk To Yourself* was my apparent answer — a book on “how to erase and replace past mental programs with healthy, new programs”, a “manual for the human mind”. While I can’t yet say whether or not the methods have been effective for me, content-wise, the book does deliver on its promise. It provides practical “self-talk” exercises for reprogramming your mind, along with research to back it. One criticism: while I definitely found the content of this book valuable, I felt like a considerable portion of the book was repetitive fluff and self-aggrandizement (eg. at one point the author promotes his own self-talk recordings).

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Book Review #55 – The Power of Your Subconscious Mind

The Power of Your Subconscious MindThe Power of Your Subconscious Mind by Joseph Murphy
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

The book sheds light on many different aspects of life and helps you change your mindset and see things differently. I look at a lot of things differently now and am fully aware of my thoughts, words, actions, and responsibilities as a person because of this book.

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Book Review #54 – Commentary on the Forty Hadith of Imam Al-Nawawi – Timeless Prophetic Gems of Guidance and Wisdom

Commentary on the Forty Hadith of Imam Al-Nawawi - Timeless Prophetic Gems of Guidance and WisdomCommentary on the Forty Hadith of Imam Al-Nawawi – Timeless Prophetic Gems of Guidance and Wisdom by Jamal Ahmed Badi
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is an excellent and thorough commentary on the Hadith which are the pillars of Islamic principles and ideals. This commentary engages the reader such that he/she can readily apply and benefit from these Prophetic gems in their personal lives, and in light of contemporary times. Numerous classical commentary and relevant Quranic ayaat and Hadith are also quoted to further elaborate on the meaning of these comprehensive hadith.

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Book Review #52 – Next Person You Meet In Heaven

Next Person You Meet In HeavenNext Person You Meet In Heaven by Mitch Albom
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

“One life touches another and that life touches the next. … All endings are also beginnings, we just don’t know it at the time.” —Mitch Albom, “The Next Person You Meet in Heaven”

Author Mitch Albom’s sequel, The Next Five People You Meet in Heaven, is even better than the first book, The Five People You Meet in Heaven, and there’s not many sequels you can say that about and truly mean it. I loved the depth of his concept of heaven and the way he told the story in present and past flashbacks. It’s truly brilliant.

The Next Five People You Meet in Heaven is a story about love—looking for it, finding it, accepting it, and losing it. It’s a story about loss and anger, repentance and forgiveness. It’s a book about understanding. About understanding who you are, understanding your life, and accepting your mistakes—being grateful for what they taught you. It’s a book that will cause you to ponder and reflect on your own life, something Mitch Albom is especially good at. It shows how life is full of joys and sorrows, love and loss, and how ‘endings are just new beginnings.’ It’s inspirational!

“At certain moments, when death is close, the veil pulls back between this world and the next. … You can see them awaiting your arrival. And they can see you coming.” —Mitch Albom, “The Next Person You Meet in Heaven”

“When we build, we build on the shoulders of those who came before us. And when we fall apart, those who came before us help put us back together.” —Mitch Albom, “The Next Person You Meet in Heaven”

“If you truly love someone, you’ll find a way back.” —Mitch Albom, “The Next Person You Meet in Heaven”

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Book Review #51 – The Five People You Meet in Heaven

The Five People You Meet in HeavenThe Five People You Meet in Heaven by Mitch Albom
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is an amazing book. Not usually the type of thing I read at all, and I really thought it would be extremely religious-oriented. I’m not sure why I bothered with it, but I’m very glad I did. You will not find anything preachy about it at all. This is an amazing story about how 6 people impacted the lives of others. From those, he didn’t know to those he knew only too well. It’s a lesson on how we impact others, even when we’re not aware of their existence or our crossing with it. I only just recently read it and I want to read it again already. It really makes you think about how you may have impacted others and who are the five people you would meet in the afterlife. I think this really transcends a specific religion and can be applied to most afterlife scenarios.

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Book Review #50 – Anxiety: Panicking about Panic: A Powerful, Self-Help Guide for Those Suffering from an Anxiety or Panic Disorder

Anxiety: Panicking about Panic: A Powerful, Self-Help Guide for Those Suffering from an Anxiety or Panic DisorderAnxiety: Panicking about Panic: A Powerful, Self-Help Guide for Those Suffering from an Anxiety or Panic Disorder by Joshua Fletcher
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Wow, this book is fantastic! For a couple of years, I have suffered anxiety and all the feelings it comes with I never really understood what was going on with my mind and body until now!! I have read this on my kindle and it’s given me comfort and really helped me when the flutters of anxiety have appeared! Now I understand it’s all about rewiring the brain and the thought process. Now I look at anxiety like a Big lion or a tiger that’s right behind me in a cage and it’s roaring and dying to get out to get me but I am not allowing it! I will not be beaten by this! Reading this book I have now seen off a fair few developing anxiety episodes they have not fully developed at all because I just tell myself it’s just a bit of anxiety it’s going to be alright it will pass soon and it’s going to be okay again. I feel this book has given me some strength to face anxiety rather than fear it. I no longer think I am dying or having a heart attack as Joshua has described all the feelings that come with anxiety and panic! I am now about to download the 2nd of his books Thank you to the author: Joshua Fletcher for helping me understand this…

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Book Review #49 – Under a Gilded Moon

Under a Gilded MoonUnder a Gilded Moon by Joy Jordan-Lake
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

UNDER A GILDED MOON by Joy Jordan-Lake is a beautifully-written and captivating novel of the extremes of wealth and poverty set in and around the famous Biltmore Estate in North Carolina. The story is set around 1895 when the Biltmore House, the palatial mansion being built by one of the Vanderbilt heirs, is in its final stages of construction. Most of the poverty-stricken neighbors have been forced to sell their land to Vanderbilt to complete the project. One of those neighbors, Kerry MacGregor, was lucky enough to move away and attend an elite college in New York City, but finds herself suddenly called back home because of her father’s poor health. Despite the hard feelings she has harbored toward him, Kerry knows it is her obligation to return. On the train home, she meets several characters that will have a life-changing effect on Kerry and her family. Secrets lie, and a growing wave of clashes between classes and races leads to dangerous and tragic consequences. The author expertly portrays the stories of both the rich and poor and how their lives become interwoven. The description of the setting was so vivid I felt like I was there. I thoroughly enjoyed this compelling and well-researched work of historical fiction and highly recommend it. A GILDED MOON was my First Kindle Reads selection of 2021.

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Book Review #48 – Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking

Blink: The Power of Thinking Without ThinkingBlink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking by Malcolm Gladwell
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I truly enjoyed this book. Malcom Gladwell wrote an intriguing account, analyzing how people think. This book sights several examples and studies conducted by reputable universities and doctors in their respective fields. The novel is centered around the idea that fast decision-making can be equal to cautious thinking when to trust our instincts, and knowing that first impressions can be educated impressions. It is an excellent example of how people affect one another without so much as even consciously knowing it. I would recommend this to anyone interested in human consciousness.

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Book Review #47 – As a Man Thinketh

As a Man ThinkethAs a Man Thinketh by James Allen
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

As A Man Thinketh is a great book if you wish to change your ways of thinking and come to the realization that your thoughts govern and produce results within your life (law of attraction/manifestation). I would say that this is a book you would read if you’re into meditation. The reason I say that is because being open-minded while reading this book is key to getting the most out of this book. Every word, sentence and paragraph resonated with me and ultimately helped me to understand that I am responsible for my own life and how my thoughts respond to circumstances. What is key to benefitting from this book is to ingrain this philosophy into your daily life so that no matter what events unfold you know that this information is true. For some people, they may be able to read this book and get this message saved within their brains the first time. But if you’re analytical like I was… you’ll need to practice and literally read this over and over until this knowledge becomes second nature. Yes it’s common sense that A person’s thoughts inevitably create their life, we just need to find a way to direct and control our thoughts or feelings within our subconscious. What has helped for me is meditation. You would listen to guided meditation and then after you’ve calmed your mind read this book, then meditate again. When you first meditate it’s to clear your mind, when you meditate a second time after reading As A Man Thinketh, it’s to integrate this knowledge within your psyche so that you meditate on these truths and they become a part of you. This book is enlightening and it’s key that it becomes a part of our subconscious so that we can gradually benefit over and over from it. I highly recommend this book.

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Book Review #46 – Negative Self-Talk and How to Change It

Negative Self-Talk and How to Change ItNegative Self-Talk and How to Change It by Shad Helmstetter
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

There are excellent points in this book on how to change negative self-talk, that could positively change lives. And it is worth the money and a good read. However, this author coined the term Negative Self-Talk Disorder. Negative self-talk is not a disorder, disease or illness. The author missed an opportunity to explain that the brain is a ‘threat detector’, designed to keep us alive, survive. That’s its primary job. Out of all the info out there, this is what I have learned. So, negative self-talk is a natural function of the brain to protect us from danger (real or imagined). One missing key is to get curious about our negative self-talk, and not label it as a ‘disorder’. This is where I think the author did a disservice, by not emphasizing negative self-talk’s purpose. It has a purpose. And it would have been extremely helpful to address negative self-talk in the context of our lives and not call it a disease…so to speak.

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Book Review #45 – Dear Evan Hansen

Dear Evan HansenDear Evan Hansen by Val Emmich
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I really enjoyed this book while reading it. The plot was simultaneously outrageous and believable, the narrator was relatable, and I thought it did justice to the topic of mental illness which not all books can pull off well. I was shocked to learn that the book was an adaptation of the musical and not the other way around, it seems like an insanely creative story and I can’t wait to see it as a musical and am curious about how it will be done.

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Book Review #44 – The Blackhouse

The Blackhouse (Lewis Trilogy, #1)The Blackhouse by Peter May
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

When one has finished a perfectly mediocre book it’s a profound relief to find the next one a pleasure to read. ” The Black House” scores points on many levels and Peter May is an accomplished storyteller. I expected to read a classic murder mystery but this novel is much more than that. In fact, the murder investigation plays second fiddle and is merely there to enable the author to delve into his hero’s past. It’s a tale full of quiet melancholy as Finn’s reminiscences force him to see the child he was and the way fate delivered blows which made him the adult he is. I found the author adept at recreating both the happiness and angst of childhood and the inevitable nostalgia they give rise to, once the character has become a grown-up and has to think back on all the defining moments of his life when he took a path that it might have been better to avoid. The landscape is masterfully depicted and the characters utterly believable. A tale that is both moving and cruel and that won’t leave you indifferent.

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Book Review #43 – Underland: A Deep Time Journey

Underland: A Deep Time JourneyUnderland: A Deep Time Journey by Robert Macfarlane
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is my first excursion into the worlds Robert MacFarlane shares through his writing. I am appreciating the breadth of material from which he draws from in order to create a picture of the world under the soil. He succeeds in opening the door and drawing the reader into a fascinating world. We as the reader, are taken on a journey through time and space into what lies underground. These worlds are complex and interconnected. MacFarlane is able to create a tapestry that connects homo sapiens to and with the “underland”. The images he creates and the story he tells, about us and the earth, in this book will stay with me for a long, long time.

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Book Review #42 – The Scientific Deception of the New Atheists

The Scientific Deception of the New AtheistsThe Scientific Deception of the New Atheists by Mohammed Hijab
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I have been watching Brother Hijab for many years in the speaker’s corners. I have never known about his books until I followed him on Instagram and learn that he has written a couple of books. “The Scientific Deception of the New Atheists” book can save an entire generation. An excellent analysis of the deceptive tactics of new Atheists and their lack of real-world impact on believers. A must-read for Muslims involved in teaching Islam, and for young people experiencing doubts about the faith.

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Book Review #41 – Unlabel: Selling You Without Selling Out

Unlabel: Selling You Without Selling OutUnlabel: Selling You Without Selling Out by Marc Ecko
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is required reading for anyone looking not only to start a business to have a deeper understanding of what moves them. Ecko is honest and open about both his business success and failures and it’s really refreshing and inspirational. I’ve read a ton of business and philosophy books and this is by far one the best books I have read on both topics. Honestly, it’s one of the best books I have ever read. This should mandatory reading in high school and or college courses. I’ll be sure to have my daughter soon read it and have discussions with her along the way as she progresses through the book. What a great book!! Thanks Marc!!

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Book Review #40 – The Rhythm of Life: Living Every Day with Passion and Purpose

The Rhythm of Life: Living Every Day with Passion and PurposeThe Rhythm of Life: Living Every Day with Passion and Purpose by Matthew Kelly
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I do not discriminate any book by its cover or what is written in it. As a Muslim, I don’t mind reading non-Islamic books as this book “The Rhythm Of Life” was recommended by my catholic friend, when I give him Qur’an to read because I have schooled him about Bible that he can not eat pork: Those who want to know where it says in the Bible “Leviticus 11:: NIV. You may eat any animal that has a split hoof completely divided and that chews the cud. … And the pig, though it has a split hoof completely divided, does not chew the cud; it is unclean for you. You must not eat their meat or touch their carcasses; they are unclean for you.

Here is my review on this book:

Matthew Kelly does not need more deserving accolades from me. I give them anyway and for sure this is a five-star book. But there are some lingering questions I have that I think he needs to address. Rather than write volumes of a review I will focus mostly on those questions in a somewhat random manner. On the idea that life is choices, does a three-year-old choose to be molested? Does an infant choose to be decapitated by mentally ill adults set on revenge toward each other (called collateral damage by some)? Regarding the use of the word illusion, this works both ways and the illusion of value from hype artists needs to be addressed in terms of what is their set of values? This is complex as even the author implies that there is a value placed on how we need to be.

On one hand, the author says, “We all need people in our lives who raise our standards, remind us of our essential purpose and challenge us to become the-best version-of-ourselves” yet, on the other hand, he talks of we long to be that someone who can listen without trying to fix, change, or move the other person. This dichotomy needs to be clarified. For sure I liked Kelly’s comments on discernment. Discernment is a critical word. In my experience synthetic telepathy interferes with discernment. The author points out how all the bombardment of advertising etc., in a similar way to synthetic telepathy, as interfering with our discernment in living who we are. For sure as Matthew says we cannot make decisions in a vacuum.

When the taxpayer-funded oligarchy occult mind-control puppets say, “I own your soul” this may well in my experience mean, based on Kelly’s thesis, that they own/owned my journey. This taken from Kelly’s slogan, “The Journey of the Soul.”

Loved Matthew’s comments on “being” includes consisting not only of who you are now but also of who you are capable of becoming at any moment in the future. Having said that, I often wondered throughout the book, since all is an illusion, how much of what he presents is his own wishful thinking or illusion? As the author says, “The image is an illusion. The light is the truth.” When the author says, “A person who is completely dedicated to the light is capable of anything” now the question, is that an illusion? The demarcation between what is an illusion and what is not easy to discern.

On the comment “…embrace your God.” This is an interesting statement here because the author has defined God in other sentences. Here is he calling God each person’s ultimate reality as they each see it?

Enough questions, you get five stars and the book is highly recommended.

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Book Review #39 – Think Like Zuck: The Five Business Secrets of Facebook’s Improbably Brilliant CEO Mark Zuckerberg

Think Like Zuck: The Five Business Secrets of Facebook's Improbably Brilliant CEO Mark ZuckerbergThink Like Zuck: The Five Business Secrets of Facebook’s Improbably Brilliant CEO Mark Zuckerberg by Ekaterina Walter


Great book!! I have to say Mark Zuckerberg has been portrayed so differently from the movie The Social Network. After reading this book one would want to be more like the protagonist, a big thanks, I believe also to the writing style of Ekaterina Walter. It gets a tad bit repetitive at times but never the less a job well done. I highly recommend reading this book for all those who are in business. It’s one of those books that’s needs more than a one time read to capture and recreate the ideas for one’s own self.

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Book Review #38 – Stallo

StalloStallo by Stefan Spjut
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

So here is the little plot from my side: 1978. A young boy disappears without a trace from a cabin in the woods. His mother claims that he was abducted by a giant. The boy is never found. The previous year, over in a Swedish National Park, a wildlife photographer takes a strange picture from his small airplane, of a bear running over the marshes. On its back sits a creature, which the photographer claims are something extraordinary.

25 years later, and back in Laponia, Susso runs a much-maligned web page, one dedicated to searching for creatures whose existence has not yet been proven: the Yeti, the Loch Ness Monster, Big Foot. But Susso has her own obsession, one inherited from her grandfather, the well-known wildlife photographer. When an old woman claims that a small creature has been standing outside her house, observing her and her five-year-old grandson for hours, Susso picks up her camera and leaves for what will become a terrifying adventure.

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Stallo is a large human-like creature in the Sami folklore and since the book is about giants that kidnap children is the title quite logical. What caught my attention to read this novel is because Susso also has a passion for the website, photography, etc so that definitely made me want to read the novel. This book has 600 pages and honestly, I skipped some pages I have never before had the urge to skipped pages, but it was the only way for me to finish the book. Not that it was bad. The story in itself was good. However, it could have easily been cut down around 200-300 pages by just taking away all the tedious uninteresting stuff that had no bearing on the story. For instance, I like board games but am I not that interested to read how some of the characters playing one on Christmas day, blah blah blah

As for the story, I found it intriguing, and I liked how the author manages to connect the story to John Bauer and Sven Jerring. And, the whole Stallo thing with the kidnapping of children reminded me of the Japanese anime series “Attack on Titan” and another reason why I wanted to read this book. I liked this book, I just didn’t love this book and that’s because the story would have needed to trim down a bit and making it more flowing. So, all and all, not a perfect book, but still interesting to read. Although, I do recommend reading it…

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Book Review #37 – Crime and Punishment

Crime and PunishmentCrime and Punishment by Fyodor Dostoevsky
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is a classic translation of a book about a man grappling with his conscience over a crime he committed; what is left for me to write in a review? It’s all been said. I think the fact that I finished this book is a testament to the compelling nature of the story. One thing that was really tough for me was the names. There were so many names for each character I think it took me the whole book to remember who was who without looking it up. So, google the characters and keep it bookmarked. Then settle in for a long, but rewarding read.

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Book Review #36 – Dean Koontz (Seasonal Series)

Photographing the Dead (Nameless: Season One, #2)Photographing the Dead by Dean Koontz
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This second in a series of short stories is just as exciting as the first. The ending is outstanding in that it provides an unexpected and ingenious method of rendering justice. Loved it!

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The Praying Mantis Bride (Nameless: Season One, #3)The Praying Mantis Bride by Dean Koontz
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

I really enjoyed the first two stories in this series. This third one was not nearly as good. The story plot was interesting, but the enjoyment was lessened by too many euphemisms. Sorry! I am a huge Koontz fan – yet for me this one was a little off the mark!!.

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Red Rain (Nameless: Season One, #4)Red Rain by Dean Koontz
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Nameless once again crusades for justice. He seeks to avenge the death of two children and the disfigurement of their mother from a fire. These were quick read and not as satisfying as previous books in the series. I still like this author and will Nameless once again crusades for justice. He seeks to avenge the death of two children and the disfigurement of their mother from a fire. These were quick read and not as satisfying as previous books in the series. I still like this author and will continue the series continue the series

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The Mercy of Snakes (Nameless: Season One, #5)The Mercy of Snakes by Dean Koontz
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I love any Dean Koontz book. These small stories are interesting and compelling tales. I wish they were longer, but I think that at the end of all his books! I would highly recommend this and the others in this series.

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Book Review #35 – In the Heart of the Fire

In the Heart of the Fire (Nameless #1)In the Heart of the Fire by Dean Koontz
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

The suspense encountered in this book does not let up. It continues throughout and seamlessly moves from each chapter to a thrilling and satisfying conclusion. The reader will be left wanting to read the next book installment without any hesitation. Another winning read provided by Dean Koontz!

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Book Review #34 – The Devil in America

The Devil in AmericaThe Devil in America by Kai Ashante Wilson
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is mesmerizing and heart-breaking story and i completely loved it, even though it just ripped me apart as I read it but yet beautifully told. It is a story about the evil of slavery and racism is woven together with magic and family bonds stretching back through generations. This book “The Devil In America” devastated me with it’s powerful language, orginal imagination, and bleeding-raw emotion. Wilson’s writing is masterful – hinting and suggesting to make you understand so much with his concentrated, suggestive and forceful prose.

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Book Review #33 – The Precipice

The Precipice (Mike Bowditch, #6)The Precipice by Paul Doiron
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I’ve never read this author before, but I am somewhat familiar with the area this book takes place in… It’s an accurate depiction of that area and a gripping mystery that makes you not want to put it down. The ending is climactic, but yet not telegraphed in the earlier parts of the book… The pacing is smart and fast. The descriptions of the Maine wilderness are beautiful. Mr. Doiron reminds us that the Nature in general, and the AT in particular, offer challenge, escape, excitement, danger, and solace, but make no moral judgments. It’s people who do that. A great read!

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Book Review #31 – Light in August

Light in AugustLight in August by William Faulkner
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This is the first William Faulkner book I’ve ever read. It won’t bet the last. This man was a genius. He creates word pictures that depict a time and a place and a people with excruciating and artistic realness and paints pictures with his words that will long resonate after the book is finished.

Set in a rural Mississippi town in the early 1930s and peopled with a variety of characters who will live in my memory forever, the story follows a young and pregnant teenager who is looking for her lover with the hope of marriage. Instead, she meets a hardworking and unattractive man who falls in love with her helps her to find a place to stay. In the meantime, her actual lover and father of her unborn child are selling bootleg whisky and sharing a cabin with a man named Christmas who is part negro and is bedding a wealthy woman who dies when her house is set on fire. There’s also a defrocked pastor with problems of his own and the pathetic grandparents of the man named Christmas who is in danger of being lynched.

The book, however, is more than the sum of its parts. It is the worldview that typifies William Faulkner at his finest and even though there are parts of the book that a bit overwrote and confusing, I still give it my highest recommendation and advise readers to not miss the experience of reading this fine author.

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Book Review #30 –  The Roadhouse

The RoadhouseThe Roadhouse by Kerry McGinnis
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

The Roadhouse is all about family secrets mixed with crime and romance. So the plot goes out like Charli who wants to be an actress doesn’t have the talent to be one so she decided to go back home a few hours east of Alice Springs in the Northern Territory. When she arrived, she found out that her mom had heartache and airlifted to Adelaide for surgery. So Charli took over the family business however, unexplained incidents were happening at the roadhouse that made Charli thinking about Annabelle’s death. The Roadhouse is the first book I had read of Kerry Mcginnis and I really enjoyed reading it. As you see, the plot got my attention to read this book especially after waiting for my favorite author novel to arrive this coming week. I thought this book was fantastic. I love how Kerry portrayal of Charli characters and the way they twine everything together with one another. The book is well written and the readers will learn about how to run a service station in isolated places while learning family values and not to keep secrets and greed which can cause misunderstanding and stress in the families. I totally recommend this book!!

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Book Review #29 – The Siege

The Siege (The Six #2)The Siege by Mark Alpert
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

This book is kind of hard to review. I am still not sure how I feel about the characters because, well, they’re robots. They don’t feel things the way most people do and yet, they do. Because all of their memories were implanted in the machines, they are like a weird hybrid of robots and humans. This was so hard to get used to. I didn’t really get the romance thing between Adam and Shannon. How can robots even have a relationship? That part was so weird and honestly, I would have liked that part to be explored a little bit more. Shannon does get upset at something Adam does pretty early on and she ends things with him. I wish more of the book would have been spent on exploring that relationship and what it means. But recently I watch the new Terminator movie “Dark Fate” and it kinda helps me analyze this book well sort of. I don’t want to spoil it since many of you might not see the new Terminator “Dark Fate” movie yet before 11/3/2019. Anyway, overall great read!

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Book Review #28 – Girl Jacked

Girl Jacked (Jack Stratton, #1)Girl Jacked by Christopher Greyson
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This was a great book. A mystery that gets more and more complicated, interesting characters and great humor. I found myself laughing out loud quite a lot and I rarely do that when reading a book. I think that humor helped balance out the darker parts of the story which made the book even better.

I’m looking forward to other mysteries that Jack and Replacement solve together.

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Book Review #27 – Jack Knifed

Jack Knifed (Jack Stratton, #2)Jack Knifed by Christopher Greyson
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I believe you can read the Jack Stratton series in any order but I have this thing that I have to read all the books in order. I already read “Girl Jacked – #1” and today I finished reading “Jack Knifed – #2”. You can see my review on “Girl Jacked ” on my Goodreads profile anyway, Jack Knifed book story starts with a call from a mental hospital where Jack’s mother Patricia Cole is a patient. She wants to see her son. Patty suffers from early Alzheimer’s and according to her doctor has moments of lucid when she remembers. Having Jack visit her, Patty begins to reveal her life and who Jack’s father was. Some of the clues don’t make sense at all. Another mystery for Jack Stratton!!!

This is a really good book I couldn’t put it down and can’t wait for the next one. Who would read it? Anyone who enjoys a good story, but it’s not a complicated plot but does have the depth to the story so should keep you interested right to the end. I will be reading next novel name “Jacks are wild” by Mr. Greyson… Thank you to this amazing author, Christopher Greyson for writing an awesome novel series 😀

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Book Review #26 – Jerks at Work: How to Deal with People Problems and Problem People

Jerks at Work: How to Deal with People Problems and Problem PeopleJerks at Work: How to Deal with People Problems and Problem People by Ken Lloyd
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Finally, a book that honestly identifies and analyzes that prolific workplace species – the jerk. Organized by situation and topic, Jerks at Work presents the answers to at least 200 jerk-related questions from real-life readers that were originally published in author Ken Lloyd’s syndicated On the Job column. The book is psychologically sound, excruciatingly direct, extremely funny and, above all, actually helpful. Lloyd does a splendid job of covering all the bases and every kind of a jerk, from the boardroom to the mailroom. I highly recommend this book to everyone, because every company has at least one jerk.

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Book Review #25 – Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus

Men Are from Mars, Women Are from VenusMen Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus by John Gray
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Everyone needs to read this book to improve every relationship. Every page has “That makes sense” points that explain why men and women act the way they do.

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Book Review #24 – Blue Moon

Blue Moon (The Immortals, #2)Blue Moon by Alyson Noel
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I am only giving three stars because the author is my friend’s favorite novel author. The story is very chick flick type and very close to Twilight. Tbh, I never like Twilight movies. So needless to say, I am not going to read Book #1 Evermore or the next series Sorry Alyson!

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Book Review #23 – How Enlightenment Changes Your Brain: The New Science of Transformation

How Enlightenment Changes Your Brain: The New Science of TransformationHow Enlightenment Changes Your Brain: The New Science of Transformation by Andrew B. Newberg
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

I was very interested in reading a book about brain function before, during, after “enlightenment” activities.While there was some of that, certainly more than in most such books, I was disappointed.
There was much more about the enlightenment and what it means to the authors than about brain function when people are having spiritual kind of experiences.

For my objectives I would give it 2 stars, but I am giving it 3 because for most people it might be interesting

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Book Review #22 – Collecting the Dead

Collecting the Dead (Special Tracking Unit #1)Collecting the Dead by Spencer Kope
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I just finished reading this intriguing and unusual book. The main character, called Steps for a reason that the reader learns as the story goes along, has a special talent that makes him a human bloodhound. I wasn’t sure how this very not mainstream talent would play in the mainstream book at first, but it was almost perfect. The other characters were great too, some eclectic and some pretty normal. I have a feeling we will be learning more about each of the characters as we go along in the series. Well, what I assume will be a series! The writer seems to have a great sense of humor, and that fact that came out, even while tracking a serial killer. It made the pages fly by, instead of slogging slowly. I can’t wait to learn more about this trackers “gift”, and more about his family and friends. Even the small unimportant characters were interesting to read about… I actually had time to sit and finish this book once I got started, glad I did, I was finding it hard to put down. Highly recommended.

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Book Review #21 – Mayo Clinic Guide to Raising a Healthy Child

Mayo Clinic Guide to Raising a Healthy Child (Mayo Clinic Parenting Guides)Mayo Clinic Guide to Raising a Healthy Child by Angela C. Mattke
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Most new parents adopt the parenting style that their own parents used (or the opposite of that, if it was bad). But you wouldn’t use tools from the last century to work on your car, would you? So why would you use outdated tools on your most precious resource, your child? This book is sensitively written, full of useful, current information, and centered always around the best interests of the child.

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Book Review #20 – Peace Like a River

Peace Like a RiverPeace Like a River by Leif Enger
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I thoroughly enjoyed this book, which was recommended by a friend. I loved the characters and how it was written in the first person, by the main character, a young boy named Reuben. The descriptions of events and the underlying hope that this family has in the face of some horrible events kept me eager to get to the end to see how it would turn out. No spoiler alerts here. If you want a good and well-written novel, then I recommend you to read this book.

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Book Review #19 – Memory Power 101: A Comprehensive Guide to Better Learning for Students, Businesspeople, and Seniors

Memory Power 101: A Comprehensive Guide to Better Learning for Students, Businesspeople, and SeniorsMemory Power 101: A Comprehensive Guide to Better Learning for Students, Businesspeople, and Seniors by W.R. Klemm
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

There is so much in this book for a first-time memory study and beginning ‘practicer’ like me that I copied a lot of notes and kept it where I can review the helpful tips frequently. I like this author writing style with a memory myth buster, examples etc.

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Book Review #18 – What Would MacGyver Do?: True Stories of Improvised Genius in Everyday Life

What Would MacGyver Do?: True Stories of Improvised Genius in Everyday LifeWhat Would MacGyver Do?: True Stories of Improvised Genius in Everyday Life by Brendan Vaughan
My rating: 1 of 5 stars

I am so despondent over this book. So little was anywhere close to the type of solutions that MacGyver would do; worst was that he wouldn’t have even participated in these stories. Too many stories dealt with morally questionable situations (how do you fake ID’s to get haram stuff, what can I do to get inebriated, how to fake out a girlfriend, etc.). Anyone that’s ever watched the show AND appreciated it knows that the whole catch to the character was that he would always fix a situation in a way that did NOT compromise his character, morals or ideals; even if it meant exposing himself to more jeopardy or making things harder to do. Best of all, he was a SCIENTIST, a lover of KNOWLEDGE, an environmentalist, and a trustworthy friend. The stories in this book have so little science and require so little imagination that you almost wonder why the authors didn’t succumb to Darwin’s theory earlier. After about a third of the book, I was so repulsed by the stories that I actually dreaded reading anymore. I did finish, but only because I did indeed pay for the book and hoped that somewhere in the proper spirit of Angus MacGyver, the author would find a solution for the dreck that he calls a book.

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Book Review #17 – Steal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative

Steal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being CreativeSteal Like an Artist: 10 Things Nobody Told You About Being Creative by Austin Kleon
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

A fantastic book and it probably took me an hour (tops) to read. For the win. Even though this book is a quick read, the sheer volume of encouraging and inspiring truth bombs makes me feel like it’s one that I could take a much longer time to study in-depth.

Some of my favorites are:

“You need to find a way to bring your body into your work.” Pg# 54
“If you have two or three real passions, don’t feel like you have to pick and choose between them.” Pg# 68
“When you open up your process and invite people in you learn.” Pg# 81
“Travel makes the world look new, and when the world looks new, our brains work harder.” Pg# 94
“If you ever find that you’re the most talented person in the room, you need to find another room.” Pg# 104
“Freedom from financial stress also means freedom in your art.” Pg# 123

The list goes on and on. He also mentions at the end of the book that you need to marry well. I can say that beyond a shadow of a doubt, you have to be careful who you marry. This book will provide inspiration, kick in the pants truth, and motivation for wherever you find yourself in life.

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Book Review #16 – Endurance: A Year in Space, A Lifetime of Discovery

Endurance: A Year in Space, A Lifetime of DiscoveryEndurance: A Year in Space, A Lifetime of Discovery by Scott Kelly
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Author, as well as astronaut Scott Kelly, has so much to tell, and I enjoyed all of the details of life in space aboard the I.S.S., and life with Russian Cosmonauts and the Russian Space Federations’ role in getting pilots up to the I.S.S.

I have always been interested to find out about space programs, NASA activities, and in our astronauts. Seeing them taking off sends chills up and down my spine, along with a few prayers for their journey to space and returning back to planet earth. The moonwalk was incredible! What was missing for me was actual knowledge of what really happens in space when they are there.

Scott did an amazing job describing every aspect of being an astronaut, and how dangered involved. The book attracts my attention when I read the summary of the book in the back where it says that he was in space for a year and he provided an excellent description of that.

This story is amazing. More amazing when you remember that it is not science fiction but reality. If you are at all interested in space, this is an absolute must. If you are not interested in space you will still find this fascinating and thrilling. Scott Kelly is not a great narrator. That being said his straight forward reading suits the material and won me over.


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Book Review #15 – Animal Farm

Animal FarmAnimal Farm by George Orwell
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Since we find ourselves again in the maras of Presidential politics, a book written 3/4 century ago will open your eyes in a way you simply cannot imagine. History has a funny way of repeating itself and while the powers that held control tried virtually everything to suppress this book, eventually it came to the light of day.

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Book Review #14 – The Light in the Heart

The Light in the HeartThe Light in the Heart by Roy T. Bennett
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I finished reading this book same day I got it. I really like the content a lot in this book. It’s a short book but It offers to the point positive thoughts. I did notice a spelling mistake (“wright” instead of “right”…I think Roy meant “right”…sorry if I’m incorrect). Based on the content, this author will learn from that and carry on. That is why I kept my 5 stars. I recommend this book to anyone. My favorite part in the book is “Your life is happening right now”. This author is also on Twitter and offers frequent positive quotes with amazing art.

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Book Review #13 – Anger Management for Dummies

Anger Management for DummiesAnger Management for Dummies by W. Doyle Gentry
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

I decided to tackle my anger…which I did not think I had a big problem but my good friends told me it was an issue. I use to let my anger build up and then blow up at the person several weeks later. This book is amazing! It gives you real insight as to where your anger comes from . Then it teaches you how to prevent the anger from building and techniques to use so it does not escalate. I refer back to this book when needed.

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Book Review #12 – What Would Google Do?

What Would Google Do?What Would Google Do? by Jeff Jarvis
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Seriously the author Jeff Jarvis is in love with Google like I am but Jeff is more like obsessed with Google. If Google was a person, Jeff will be the stalker. I believe this is a profound book about changes in the business world created by continued advancement of the information age. The book as I read it, really is not about Google, per se. Instead it is a thoughtful discussion as to how all kinds of businesses will be impacted by the forces on which Google has so brilliantly capitalized. Overall, “WWGD?” was a well thought out book that was easy to read. It probably would work best with people high school age and higher. A basic understanding of social media and the internet is necessary to fully appreciate “WWGD?”. A complete novice would most likely be a bit lost with some of the terms and phrases used throughout the book. The main takeaway is for companies to join conversations online and develop relationships with their customers. Ultimately, Jeff really just wants businesses to focus on the customers instead of themselves.

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Book Review #11 – The Rocksburg Railroad Murders

The Rocksburg Railroad Murders (Mario Balzic Detective Mystery, #1)The Rocksburg Railroad Murders by K.C. Constantine
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Mario Balzic is the chief of police in a small Pennsylvania town. He’s an oddball in that he doesn’t even carry a gun, usually. When a senseless murder occurs at the railroad station, and there are no witnesses, Mario must rely on his wits and knowledge of psychology to direct him to the likely killer. Constantine writes very realistic fiction. This is not a glamorous or exciting detective novel, compared to most detective novels. The small-town setting makes it different from most police procedural, also. All the dialogue seems very true-to-life, and the characters are drawn by someone who knows people. The story drew me in further and further as I read. One gets the feeling that Constantine himself must live in a small Pennsylvania town like Rocksburg, just to be able to bring this kind of local flavor to the dish. This is the place to start if you’re interested in this series, since it’s the first novel in the set.

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Book Review #10 – When Breath Becomes Air

When Breath Becomes AirWhen Breath Becomes Air by Paul Kalanithi
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

After finishing this book, i thought of my late father who died with cancer as well back in 2013. Dealing with the fact of death is unsettling. Yet there is no other way to live. This book’s tremendous impact comes from the obvious fact that Dr. Kalanithi was such a brilliant polymath. And part comes from the way he conveys what happened to him in the book of his life passionately working and striving, deferring gratification, waiting to live, learning to die – so well. None of it is maudlin. Nothing is exaggerated. As he wrote to a friend: “It’s just tragic enough and just imaginable enough.” And just important enough to be unmissable.

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Book Review #9 – Death Clutch: My Story of Determination, Domination, and Survival

Death Clutch: My Story of Determination, Domination, and SurvivalDeath Clutch: My Story of Determination, Domination, and Survival by Brock Lesnar
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

After done reading the book, I find out why he named his book “Death Clutch”. You can learn a lot from Brock who came out from farm in Dakota to Hollywood and become a rock star. I will definitely recommend this book to young youth to learn about his life and how Brock achieved everything what he wanted. When you start reading the book, you carried away and you want to learn everything about the person in the book. This book is that kind, you will not feel bored and you will learn a lot from this guy about life, how you should stick with your family and what you want to achieve in life.

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Book Review #8 – Originals: How Non-Conformists Move the World

Originals: How Non-Conformists Move the WorldOriginals: How Non-Conformists Move the World by Adam M. Grant
My rating: 4 of 5 stars

Finished the book in two days. Here is a big heads up, you going to read over 1000 times the word “original”. Although the book has some great advice and hope to read their other book “Give and Take”. The book was very easy to read obviously after I have rad “Absalom, Absalom”. Haha Anyway, do I recommend this book? Originally definitely Yes!! especially for some one whose looking into starting a business. Originals will help you, motivate you, inspire you to become successful entrepreneur.

P.S. Excellent book for IT entrepreneurs.

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Book Review #7 – Great Expectations

Great ExpectationsGreat Expectations by Charles Dickens
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

We had to read this for 9th grade history. This was difficult as it is about London and Paris and the events leading up to the french revolution. It is a good story line but somewhat confusing for an 8th soon to be 9th grader. If you don’t know the story (it was the best of times, it was the worst of times…) – people flee France to go to England. the storming of the Bastille begins the revolution. The main characters return to France in the midst of all of the executions. There is an ultimate sacrifice in the name of love and honor. Overall good read and I got A- in the quiz.

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Book Review #6 – Moby-Dick or, The Whale

Moby-Dick or, The WhaleMoby-Dick or, The Whale by Herman Melville
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Oh, for pity’s sake, you know what Moby Dick is about. You hated it in school because somebody made you read it. You’re a grownup now so go read it again because you want to. It’s wonderfully written and it’s fun and it’s intensely interesting and you’ll meet some real characters, including a scary captain and the guy they named Starbucks after. This time you can skip the boring parts — there aren’t that many boring parts, honest. Based on a real whale, by the way.

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Book Review #4 – Absalom, Absalom!

Absalom, Absalom!Absalom, Absalom! by William Faulkner
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

This book has got depth and lyricism. Read it for the poetry. If you get more out of it, all the better. My recommendation would be to read this book at least twice, the first time just to get accustomed to Faulkner’s use of language, and then another time to concentrate and focus more on the story itself. It can be difficult to get past his use of language and digest his meaning all in one sitting, but many of the scenes, themes and characters will remain in your mind for a long time. Definitely not for everyone, but if you have time, patience, and don’t mind being challenged, give this book a shot, you may love it.

Fun Fact: The Guinness Book of World Records says that the longest sentence in English literature is a 1,287-worder (2 ½ pages long) in Absalom, Absalom!

P.S. I am going to buy a copy of this book

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Book Review #3 – Windows 10 For Dummies

Windows 10 For DummiesWindows 10 For Dummies by Andy Rathbone
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

Purchasing Windows 10 for Dummies was a worthwhile investment. I am no stranger to Microsoft Products and Operating Systems but I thought that a “How To” book might come in handy after down-loading Windows 10. The book is written for the Novice, the Casual User and even a Seasoned Veteran. If you want a desktop reference book I highly recommend Windows 10 for Dummies.

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Book Review #2 – Google SEO For Dummies

Google SEO for DummiesGoogle SEO for Dummies by Akaahan Terungwa
My rating: 3 of 5 stars

Rad this ebook from internet from my friend’s laptop. Great tips and tricks about SEO. SEO is indeed a great tool to make your website pop up on 1st SERPs. It is not hard to learn but how to implement the tricks is in this ebook.

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Book Review #1 – Three Cups Of Tea

Three Cups of Tea: One Man's Mission to Promote Peace ... One School at a TimeThree Cups of Tea: One Man’s Mission to Promote Peace … One School at a Time by Greg Mortenson
My rating: 5 of 5 stars

My maternal aunt’s husband (Khalo in Urdu) Neseem present me this book. I just cannot express enough gratitude to the author Greg Mortenson for his humanitarian efforts in Pakistan. His accomplishments are a beacon light for humanity. As a Pakistani, I felt so much guilt that we attribute the ills of our country to the inefficiency of the government and the corrupt bureaucracy. It takes an American to teach us the lesson – that even one person can accomplish a lot, provided the intentions are true and sincere. Mortenson went on a course to change the destiny of a small village in the foothills of the Himalayas -a much neglected part of the earth. How he saved money to fulfill a promise to build a school in the remote village of Korphe, makes this story seem surreal. Mortenson’s humility, sheer passion, respect for traditions, sincerity and nobility make him more than human. He is the stuff that saints are made of. Mortenson’s relentless efforts in the face of utmost hardships are truly inspirational. He was never deterred by the stereotypes and misconceptions about the region that he had ventured into, even after his brush with the fundamentalist elements of the region in the form of `fatwas’ and kidnapping. His initial success propelled him on a mission that has expanded in the region and resulted in more than 50 schools. There are countless moments in the book that touched me so deeply that I felt invigorated to do something for this cause immediately. As long as there are people like Greg Mortenson, there is hope in this world. He has shown the world that the path to succeed is one that surpasses the political, ideological, cultural and religious divides. I also admire the courage and sacrifice of Tara Bishop, who shares the same ideals as her great husband.

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Explore my latest collection of photos, showcasing everything that catches my eye and sparks my creativity. From everyday moments to the unique and unexpected, I capture the essence of what I love and find inspiring. Each image tells its own story, reflecting the world through my lens, and offering a glimpse into the things that move me—from simple beauty to fleeting moments of wonder.

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My First Blog Post

Actually, this isn’t my first blog post—in fact, I’ve been blogging for over two decades. During this time, I’ve written extensively on a variety of topics, especially in the realm of technology. From the early days of the internet to the latest advancements in AI, cloud computing, and cybersecurity, I’ve explored countless innovations and trends. My writing journey has allowed me to witness the digital landscape’s rapid evolution firsthand, and I’ve consistently aimed to break down complex subjects into accessible content for my readers. Beyond technology, I’ve also delved into numerous trending topics that have captured global attention, ranging from lifestyle trends and social media phenomena to important issues in education and business.

This wide-ranging experience has shaped my perspective and writing style, enabling me to stay relevant and insightful in a fast-paced, ever-changing world. As technology continues to transform our lives in unprecedented ways, I remain committed to sharing informed, thoughtful posts that engage both seasoned experts and curious newcomers alike. Whether through tutorials, opinion pieces, or explorations of new digital trends, my goal has always been to provide content that informs, inspires, and provokes meaningful conversations.